The Secret / The Law of Attraction Scam
So the latest fad in the world of self help is this movie called The Secret and book called The Law of Attraction. A big US talkshow host, Oprah, has jumped on board and the thing has really taken off.
People seem to have one of two reactions to The Secret. Reaction one: “This is BS.” Reaction two: “This just cleared up everything for me, I feel a new beginning in my life.”
I’m watching this on Google Video, and man, what a load of garbage. They keep flashing back and forth between experts.. hm, who is this guy, Dr. Joe Vitale MSC.D… Metaphysician? I know I’ve only been out of college for one year, but what the heck is a metaphysician, or an MSC.D for that matter? This guy has a Doctorate in Metaphysical studies?
If your crackpot alarm hasn’t gone off yet, I have a tin foil hat for you to wear.
“Thank God theres a time delay — that all of your thoughts don’t come true instantly. You’d be in trouble if they did. The time delay serves you, it allows you to reassess, and make a new choice.” Does this even deserve a response?
The movie talks about feeling good and happy thoughts. At the same time, the video infers that by being positive bad things won’t happen to you, bad things like getting a parking ticket, having your bike stolen, or getting a snag on your nylon pantyhose (I hope this is not an issue for any of my male readers.)
The Secret is supposedly made up of 3 steps — “Ask, Believe, Receive.”
Are you F#$@ing kidding me? How about a dose of reality for a change.
If you want something, you, and you alone must work for it. Blood, sweat, and tears. Or for webmasters, bloodshot eyes, an extra 20 pounds, and carpel tunnel. Your mind is step one — and positive feelings have nothing to do with it — its about will. Its nothing but will power and a little bit of chance that gets a marine through Navy Seals BUDS training. Happy supercalifragilisticexpialidocious thoughts aren’t going to help you here anymore than they will help you win the state lottery.
Self help is a cookie-butter business. Its all about making customers feel good. Thus the positive reaction by many of the “un-initiated” to “The Secret.” Pump the audience up first and then sell them. The Secret is nothing more than a carefully crafted execution in marketing.
You want to know what the real secret is? The real secret is hard work. Its hard work that gets you into the position where you can leverage large amounts capital and other human labor to your own profit. Its hard work that keeps a family together and puts children on the right track. Its hard work that landed men on the moon. If you think its anything other than hard work that will get you through life, Joel Comm has an ebook to sell you.
Achievement comes at a price. If you want to float through life, happy thoughts and avoiding the supidest mistakes will probably get you there. Spend your time telling your friends what you are going to do with all that money when you win the lottery. Me, well, I’ll be keeping things interesting.

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This is actually the first time I’ve heard of this movie/book — however I certainly agree with what you’ve said. Media like this doesn’t really help people at all it simply makes them feel better. While you would usually think that’s good, in the end it’s going to backfire and the people aren’t going to get anywhere.
Comment by Ron Johnson — February 23, 2007 @ 12:29 pm
Ah, Andrew.
Such a negative opinion of something you truly know nothing about. Hopefully, you don’t pass on this level of ‘knowledge’ in the rest of your blog articles.
This ‘secret’ is ancient knowledge. It is, simply, ‘you become what you think about’. It’s not just ‘happy thoughts’, although that can drive the process faster.
It’s knowing what you want, believing that what you want will happen, watching and waiting for the opportunities that will show up, and acting on those opportunities–all the while with a determination that you will have what you want.
Does that sound like hocus-pocus? Hardly. It’s the very thing you described yourself. Hard work. But read biographies of the great men, read books by people who have studied them, like Napoleon Hill. You’ll find that they’ve all applied the same basic principle, call it what you will.
Comment by Steve Johnson — February 23, 2007 @ 4:39 pm
Steve, what is hocus pocus is the marketing behind The Secret. “You become what you think about” is wrong. “You become what you think about if you are willing to put in the *work* to get there” is reality. Hard work isn’t a selling point. People want to believe in magical wands.
Thats why more people will happily pay $500 to join a MLM that promises to make them $5000 a month (but makes them nothing) instead of working their ass off for 3 years for pennies to become a self-made millionaire.
Comment by Andrew — February 23, 2007 @ 7:43 pm
Secret
it worked for me $20,000.00 plus my eye operation canceled,so much benifit in 6 mo.but there are others.
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steve
Comment by steve sherman — February 23, 2007 @ 10:36 pm
Andrew, when ‘you become what you think about’ you DO do the work for it, and although it doesn’t have to be ‘hard’, it does have to be determined.
Yes, people want to believe in magic wands. When they find out the magic wand takes a little effort, they jump off the wagon. This kind of thinking is not for the dreamer, but the determined person, the one who will do what it takes. That’s the mentality that’s developed when you understand ‘the secret’.
There are so many people who believe, because they’ve been taught by people who know no better, that they’re ‘stuck’. Stuck where they are, stuck with who they are and how they are. If it takes a little marketing hocus-pocus to wake these people up to the possibilities, then I’m all for it. I don’t care. What’s $30? I spend more than that on a good dinner.
I encourage you to expand your view by reading some of the materials that you can find on this subject. You don’t have to believe them or apply what’s in them, of course. But I think you’ll find, if you look back at your past successes and failures, that what you did in each case conforms to the basic principles that are taught.
We don’t need to get all new-agey, like Esther Hicks and others. Who cares HOW it works, just that it does? Who cares WHY it works, just that it DOES work when you carry the right mindset and do what needs to be done?
It works for me. I don’t know why or really how, nor do I care, nor am I an expert at it. I do know, from observation, that when I accomplish a thing, it’s because I’ve followed the principles whether by accident or design. When I don’t accomplish something I want, I can also look back and see the mistakes I made and learn from them. That is valuable knowledge and can only help you attain greater heights in whatever endeavour you wish to apply yourself.
Comment by Steve Johnson — February 24, 2007 @ 12:17 am
I’ve seen more than enough for me to even consider touching their books or videos ever again. Quite frankly, I wouldn’t have the time anyways.
Yes, if you want to accomplish something, focusing on it not working isn’t going to help you at all in accomplishing it — thats common sense. Some of the basic principles of “The Law of Attraction” are correct.
Everything else, and the people surrounded with the video, reek of snake oil. Metaphysician? Feng shui specialist? How about listening to some people who have actually achieved something in their lives other than being self-proclaimed gurus? And no, I don’t mean reading out of context quotes (like those filling the video.)
Comment by Andrew — February 24, 2007 @ 1:22 am
I think you are missing the point here Andrew, nobody is saying that by dreaming and doing nothing will cause the thing you dream to manifest out of thin air.
The principle is to believe in yourself. As long as you BELIEVE you can be/get who/what you want to be/get, you can be it.
Most people look at those great men and women that achieved great things with envy, but not at the slightest moment they even believe they can do the same.
Most people think others can do great things, but not themselves. That is called Law of Attraction, if you believe you suck, then that is really who you are, suck!
To do great things one must believe in oneself, therefore feeling good all the time (also called positive vibration), will greatly help you towards achieving your goals. If you feel good, there will be less chance for you to do bad things. I give you one example, lets say you spouse/kids are in bad mood, but you consciously keeping yourself in positive vibration (good mood), what will be your reaction? You might smile, you might prepare a cup of tea/coffee to your spouse, the good things. This ‘small things’ will lead to better mood to everybody, and indirectly to more prosperous and productive you!
Think what might happen if you are also in bad mood?, you might just ignore her and watch the tv! or stay glued to your computer, or even nastier things might happened. Those will lead to more bad things!
That is why those so called ‘gurus’ are touting everyone to feel good, believe in oneself, gratitude, etc. Like attracts like! The rewards are enormous!
If you want to know more, feel free to email me at rosdikasim gmail.
Cheers, have a wonderfull day!
Comment by Rosdi — February 24, 2007 @ 11:28 pm
Well, this is fine state of affairs.
At least some people are waking Up!
The movie the Secret and the Bo-peep PCers, afraid to “tell it like is” are at least opening some dialogue.
Hill’s Chapter 2 lays out the absolute Blueprint for Success.
I know it Works, implemented it 47 years ago as a College freshman, had 2 Profs on my payroll by my senior year.
All I needed were the the 6 steps and the Burning Desire, ramped up energy and pure joy of implementing a STRONG WORK ETHIC.
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Comment by Chuck Bartok — February 25, 2007 @ 1:11 pm
this ancient knowledge led to me needing eye surgery – i kept looking for opportunities and went blind in the process. my dog is typing this message but has been diagnosed with diabetes so i don’t know if i’ll be able to respond to any more comments. i hate this secret!
Comment by jened — February 25, 2007 @ 10:49 pm
You are exactly right. And you will get exactly what you think you will get. Good for you.
Now for you others, you can have anything you want. Just ask for it. Sure you have to work hard, but that does not mean you can do anything you want to do. Put a thought out there and see what happens. I see it on a daily basis.
“Whether you think you can, or think you can’t, you are right.” – Henry Ford
Comment by Seif — February 27, 2007 @ 8:42 pm
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The information in The Secret is nothing new. It’s been around for thousands of years. It’s in the bible!
The part that most people have a problem with is the concept that WE can create the circumstances of our lives with our thoughts, words and feelings. Religions have kept everyone believing that they are “less than” (sinners) and whatever happens to them must be “God’s Will”. If you are “BAD” then you get punished and if good we get rewarded (by God) God isn’t Santa people!! God’s will for us is for us to be joyful and at peace and everything we want right here and now. Not wait until we fly up to this place we call “heaven”. We create our own heaven and hell every minute of every day. If you believe something will take “hard work” then it will. If you believe it will be fun and effortless then the subconscious mind will go after those circumstances, the right people etc. to you to make that happen in a way YOU have no control over. You ask for what you want, you believe that it has already been given to you by FEELING that feeling of what it feels like to already have it and you DETACH from the HOW it will come to you. If it’s for your highest and greatest good then it will. If not, then you will receive it’s equivalant or better. Yes, if you are asking for a new job opportunity you still send out your resume and and go on interviews. Yes, you take the ACTION steps towards what you have asked for. It’s not hocus-pocus or magic. The Law of Attraction is a spiritual law just like gravity is a scientific law. Like thoughts and feelings attracts it’s like. So you create the thoughts connected to what you want, you attach a positive FEELING to it, You ask and you LET IT GO.
Personally, I’ve been teaching The Laws of Attraction for over 20 years. It’s been out there. Now this movie comes out and it’s all the rage. Part of me is happy that it’s finanaly reach the general public. I guess it’s time has come as we all grow and expand spiritually.
I’m kind of “Secreted-Out” myself at this point too. Everyone who teaches ANYTHING is finding a way to jump on the bandwagon by attaching The Secret to what they are talking about or selling. The movie aside, if you have any doubts about the concepts of LOA, please take some time to check out other information about The Law of Attraction. At least then you can make an educated decision about it.
Rev. Joan L. King
Dallas, Texas
Comment by JOAN — February 28, 2007 @ 12:42 pm
things…
1. If I had to sum the entire thing up, it’s that the Law of Attraction
is all about alignment. You’ve got to do the “work” if you want to
bring something info your life.
This is where I think people mess up, which gives the entire thing the
“MLM/Amway” kind of vibe. You can’t just sit around eating junk food
and watching reruns and expect to live on the beach…regardless of what
the infomercials say.
People like Joe Vitale are out working. Bob Proctor is out working.
James Ray is out working.
2. I found a FREE book (yes, FREE) that helped me figure out all of
this. http://www.receivethebook.com/ has it and it’s well worth the read.
And like I said, it’s FREE. So you can’t argue that the guy is trying
to take advantage of people looking for a “magic pill” or whatever else
I’ve been hearing over the last 2-3 weeks since this thing hit Oprah.
http://www.receivethebook.com/
Comment by tory — March 7, 2007 @ 1:24 pm
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Well, I’ll tell you something. As a teenager, I had a perpetually bad attitude. Nothing ever good seemed to happen (despite having an ideal nuclear family, really), so why should I have any kind of positive attitude.
My father, who was a no-nonsense newspaper editor, told me something. He told me about “The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy.” If you believe you’ll fail, you will, and vice-versa. It’s not magic, it’s not a secret to cost you any money, and it simply *is*. It doesn’t mean there’s no work involved, but if you’re true to yourself, you’ll take pride in what you do, and excel. You may not be rich, but you might be happy.
Comment by steelcaress — March 8, 2007 @ 6:51 am
Two things…
1. If I had to sum the entire thing up, it’s that the Law of Attraction
is all about alignment. You’ve got to do the “work” if you want to
bring something info your life.
This is where I think people mess up, which gives the entire thing the
“MLM/Amway” kind of vibe. You can’t just sit around eating junk food
and watching reruns and expect to live on the beach…regardless of what
the infomercials say.
People like Joe Vitale are out working. Bob Proctor is out working.
James Ray is out working.
2. I found a FREE book (yes, FREE) that helped me figure out all of
this. http://www.receivethebook.com/ has it and it’s well worth the read.
And like I said, it’s FREE. So you can’t argue that the guy is trying
to take advantage of people looking for a “magic pill” or whatever else
I’ve been hearing over the last 2-3 weeks since this thing hit Oprah.
http://www.receivethebook.com/
Comment by Mr. Robbert — March 8, 2007 @ 11:55 pm
So sad, so sad. That’s why we are where we are today because of naysayers like you. Obviosuly you don’t get it and that is a shame. You must be a miserable person and it works for you.
Comment by tammy — March 9, 2007 @ 8:09 pm
OH MY GOD! Will you people STFU already???
THE SECRET is a SCAM. It is marvelous Bullshit and I wish I had thought of it first because anyone gullible enough to think dropping 30 bucks on a DVD that tells you something so obvious will change their lives (which apparrently, until now have not been good…of course through everyone’s fault but their own) deserves to have thier money stolen.
OF COURSE if you don’t belive in what you are doing, you will not succeed.
Love of your work makes it easy even if from the outside it seems hard. A belief that you are going to succeed drives you towards almost any goal and that belief is needed to generate the vast amounts of energy needed to see any project to a successful end.
Thinking positive is essential to both motivate yourself and anyone esle involved in your project. constant bitching and moaning instead of quick resolution of problems leads to failure.
There… “the secret” in a nutshell. Anyone who read this owes me 30 bucks!
Comment by Fed Up — March 12, 2007 @ 11:26 am
Great info.
I watched the Secret DVD a few months ago and got another book on Law of Attraction,
but it didn’t really start happening for me until I wrote down my intentions. I found that to be
VERY powerful.
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0975436171/ is a book I just got, which makes
planning out your Law of Attraction goals easy. Just fill in the blanks and you’ve got a road
map to follow. Has been working well so far.
Comment by MAT — March 13, 2007 @ 8:40 am
after reading the book and whatching the movie I thought, “I could win the lotto if I just ask, believe, receive.” What was I thinking, its like some kinda of twilight zone I was in, I felt as if it might actually happen. I hope that others wont be as gullible.
Comment by Sara — March 15, 2007 @ 9:38 am
I have reservations about the way the law of attraction is currently being promoted as the best thing since sliced bread and for very good reasons. It takes a lot more than just thinking about this stuff to make it happen. I have worked with the law of attraction quite extensively over the years as a practicing 1st Degree Wiccan, something that I would not have shared at one time for fear of being burnt at the stake. Sometimes it works beautifully, at other times it falls flat on its face because there are so many more elements involved.
I no longer practise Wicca, I kind of grew out of it and went on to study Reiki and Kundalini Maha Yoga as well as training as a stress therapist and lifestyle coach. Recently a friend sent me a mail with a very long document regarding the law of attraction in relation to the film the Secret. I questioned it heavily. One part of this stated quite clearly that we attract everything to us by our own thinking and so on. It then went on to state that if we are attacked in the street we are to blame because we drew it towards us. In itself some of us and I stress some of us can see the logic in that. However having worked extensively with mental health clients and in particular those with depression who have a tendency to home in on the negative and catastrophize events, they pick this up and run with it without taking the positive message on board. This is more common than people actually think. We then get people who go with the mindset that they are to blame for everything that has befallen them. Dishing this out to all and sundry can do more harm than good. Is this self empowering? No it is exactly the opposite! I questioned the article with my friend on these grounds and suggested that in some cases the law of attraction given out as such was not always a good idea and that we needed to be responsible when and who we shared this with. He did not agree.
The common feeling at the moment from many who have seen ‘the Secret’ is that this information should be made available to everyone because it has been kept a secret for far too long. Interestingly it is and always has been available from some of us who have the good sense to know when and how to give this information out. When the student is ready the teacher will appear. There is a responsibility that comes with that.
What I am seeing right now is another money making scheme from those who come across as having some previously unforetold knowledge that will change mankind. I hate to burst their bubble but its not going to happen. This information is not new and is not a secret, it was passed down in the way it was by many of us for very good reasons and most people who know this stuff don’t charge. That’s right its free, we make no money off a film, a book, a DVD or anything else because we don’t feel we need to.
Just to put this into perspective regarding myself. In 1994 I hit rock bottom and was diagnosed with severe ME and was 80% disabled and spent most of my time in bed. After two years virtually confined to bed I got myself out of it. Yes I used the law of attraction to manifest what I wanted but I also used a lot of other things, cognitive therapy, self applied from books, chi kung, meditation, ultimately it was self belief and perseverance. However if things were so simple and the law of attraction really was the bees knees that its made out to be by now I would have a different life than the one I have. Things really are not that simple. Yes I did all the powerful visualisations and they can work and do work but not without effort and action in other areas of your life and a major reality check!
We all want to think that there is some power greater than ourselves that will pick us up and make everything ok. We all want to believe that there is something greater than ourselves. There is, it is ourselves, but only when we have grown up enough to let go of the magical thinking and the great mother/father figure and take real responsibility for ourselves and our lives. Until then I guess films like the Secret will continue to dish out stuff that are only a small piece in the great web of life and will make a lot of money off it to boot! I call it a lack of professionalism but then maybe that’s my own issue!
Kind Regards
Denise Robson
Comment by Denise Robson — March 16, 2007 @ 7:09 am
Hmm… doesn’t work eh? I have not learned enough about it yet (like to look at both sides of the issues). However, I do see from the posts that even though Andrew doesn’t “believe”, and thinks it is total “BS”, it sures looks like it has worked for him, albeit unconciously.
To quote: “Ask, Believe, Receive.â€
1. He asked himself, “What do I think of The Secret?”
2. He formed his belief and an action plan to promote it (posting it on this blog). NOw there seems to be a serious discussion going on for about a month. How many hits does that translate to?
3. He recieved the benefits – a #1 ranking in Google out of 1.2 Million listings for “The Secret DVD movie Scam”. I am sure that while so many people are reading through these posts, they will see the ads and services listed here.
I may have to find out more about this DVD movie. Looks like the concept works pretty well
and yes, I also have a website, and listed it.
I asked, “What would happen if I posted a comment? I believe I might get some benefit from it. Now I shall wait to see if I recieve anything from it. If my daily hits go through the roof, I will comeback and update you all.
- BillD
Comment by Beale — March 16, 2007 @ 2:14 pm
Oh, pardon the grammer, this is my first post to a blog and the site is
http://livinghealthy.limupro.com
Beale
Comment by Beale — March 16, 2007 @ 2:23 pm
hmmmm….sounds like a bunch of scientology crap
Comment by shawn — March 17, 2007 @ 12:43 pm
ever heard of noveau tech society? same bullsh*t. and the founders of noveau tech are scientologists
Comment by shawn — March 17, 2007 @ 12:45 pm
The Secret is Satanic. It carries Satan’s message of “do what thou wilt” and “you can be as gods”. What if someone wishes for that $25,000 windfall and the universe delivers it to you by killing your parents and thus you get an inheritance? Who’s to say that people practicing this “secret” aren’t delivering evil upon others for their good forune?
Comment by Mike — March 17, 2007 @ 1:06 pm
I totally agree it is satanic. Although, you can make things happen God is our ultimate source. God is our healer, deliver, and everything you need. If you could do everything on your own, where’s the need for God? I guess you wouldn’t need him. Don’t be fooled and please don’t sell your souls.
P.s
It is proven fact that people who pray heal faster check your medical journals.
Comment by nik — March 17, 2007 @ 11:04 pm
There is a lot of discussion on the MLM course offered by the teachers featured on “The Secret†I have been in financial services for over 25 years. Due diligence is a big part of financial services. The Secret is brilliant marketing and I give them a lot of credit for their marketing skills. The problem with the MLM plan is in the marketing plan. See info below. It is easy to find info by googling mlm pyramid. The marketing plan focuses on recruiting and not product sales. That is where the problem lies. Over the years I have seen many good people arrested, fined and even jailed due to ignorance, not malice.
Here is my reasoning
Legitimate multi-level-marketing plans are a way to sell real goods or services through distributors. These plans usually show that if you sign up to be a distributor, you will receive commissions – not only on your sales of the plan’s goods or services, but also on the sales of the people you recruit to join the distributors. One of the keys is that there are actually tangible products and services moving through the network, rather than just the building of the network or “building mailing lists†or “sending recipes†or “sending jokes,†etc., such as chain letters usually have you do.
Pyramid schemes have a similar structure, but a completely different focus. They concentrate on the commissions you could earn just for recruiting new distributors, and generally ignore the marketing and selling of products or services. The Federal Trade Commission requires a minimum of 10 non-distributor customers per month to be serviced by each distributor after a certain period – without these customers, it is an illegal pyramid.
John
Comment by John — March 18, 2007 @ 1:54 pm
I watched the movie on Google for free before it got pulled away and it blew me away. It put everything in perspective for me. Now, I did a search on the “Secret” seminar and their pyramid-like investment opportunity and I feel like a moron.
Comment by Rick — March 18, 2007 @ 4:34 pm
I agree… this is a bunch of nothingness. Another scam to suck the life out of your pocketbook. Hard work, common sense and edcucation is the keys to success. I can think positive about a million dollars but I’m not going to receive a check in the mail for it – Crazy Oprah….shut up!!!
Comment by Carmen Ravenall — March 19, 2007 @ 7:15 am
I have to agree with you Andrew. If you want to be successful in life then you have to do something about it. You can dream and think about all the great things you want in life, but if you don’t have the motivation to get off your rear and get to work then it’s not going to happen. I also agree with Carmen, it’s all about hard, work, common sense and keeping a close eye on your checkbook – otherwise you’ll end up broke trying to make yourself happy…
Comment by Valerie — March 19, 2007 @ 10:48 am
I am one of those who actually bit the hook and bought the DVD (extended edition). However, I keep wondering, where in the world “the movie” is! I go to the main menu and hit “Reveal the Secret” and it takes me to exactly where hitting “Secret Chapters” takes me, that is, Title 5, Chapter 1 and then the only “movie” I’m able to see is these skillful speakers talking one after another about “The Secret”. But WHERE is THE MOVIE?! Is this probably a metaphor of MLM where they keep talking about “something”, “the product”, but you never actually get to see “the product”?
Has anybody had the same experience playing the DVD?
Not to mention, that in fact there’s nothing new or anything secret here…!
Comment by Gene — March 19, 2007 @ 12:53 pm
Ah, if only the tsunami victims in Indonesia had known … the Secret! If only the workers and firefighters on 9/11 had known … the Secret! If only the victims of the Holocaust had known … the Secret!
Gosh, who knew all those bad things that happened to them – drowning, immolation, torture – were their own fault?
Hope the sarcasm is coming through here. What a wonderful “philosophy,” – you don’t have to do any work to understand its simplistic tenets, and you get to feel smug when bad things happen to other people. An added bonus: you don’t need to help them, cuz they should just “think good thoughts.” Hey – jet fuel only burns if you think it does, right?
Comment by Mex — March 20, 2007 @ 3:37 pm
As I continue to study the law of attraction (not driven from the book The Secret) I often wonder how it is that all people do not understand this? Thanks for your site, I guess I now see that some people simply rebuke things out of ignorance, or for the sake of rebuking.
I know many people who have worked hard their whole life and have very little to show for it. Just ask those people who pave the roads you drive on every day.
Then again, I know people like Paris Hilton who have done absolutely nothing and have everything. I guess it is all chance though. Everything is chance. It is chance that I hap by this obscure infrequently visited website.
But oddly enough, I did happen to think “I will see what Google has to say about The Secret” and made it here. So you decide: my thoughts brought me here, or hard work?
Life is about perception. Go back to sleep if you are going to deny that. A person in poverty would love to have that old pair of pants you throw away. Perception is nothing more than thought and feelings. Thoughts are gauged by feelings and thus create the reality you live in.
I have seen much smarter people than the person who wrote the blog (not an attack; hopefully you know there are people smarter than you) working for $10 an hour. That is where their thoughts place them. Not chance, not will and sure as hell not a lack of schooling or the sort.
Chance may make the lottery ticket win, in your eyes, but thoughts make the person buy it.
Control your thoughts, control your world. No scam.
Comment by Jeremy Clifton — March 21, 2007 @ 1:31 pm
A friend of mine turned me onto this ‘THE SECRET’ and after viewing the disc I was really angry at how absolutely silly people can be looking for a free ride in life. This movie is a flashy hollywood filmed P.R. for one of the oldest get rich quick schemes imaginable. I went to the book store and saw 19 different book titles hocking the same exact thing. I at one time followed the NAME IT AND CLAIM IT,POSITIVE CONFESSION MINISTRIES based on FAITH to be prosperous materially as well as spiritually. This was taught from the bible using a number of verses to solidify this teaching. I believed in and sat back waiting and claiming jobs, a home and relationships. After a few years of this, This FAITH(Hebrews 11:1) believing was not work for me materially. It was spiritually however. This (faith is being sure of what we hope for…)even though we don’t physically have it, was a waste of time. Until I understood (JAMES 2:20)years later.’Faith without work or effort affords you nothing.’ I began by moving to Los Angeles, Got 2 fulltime jobs, got a car after a month, a nice apartment, began auditioning and started getting singing gigs. Met and dated a former model,singer,actress I had met at one of those singing gigs. All because I stepped out of my previous situation and put myself in a place where i could accomplish my wants. I put faith into action. What good is having faith that you will get what you wish for unless you are willing to do whatever it takes to acquire it. Put forth some sort of effort to attain your desires and it may come to you.
If there is something we want out of life we have to be in the position or find a way to get in a position to aquire our desires. Sitting on our butts waiting for some Jenie to drop it in our laps will only happen out of blind luck or being in the right place at the right time. You want a big house in the hamptons. Go to the Hamptons and buy the house. If you can’t get there because you are poor living on a pig farm in the former Soviet Union, hitch a ride on a train out of there, sneak over the border, find a job in Greece or wherever, sweeping floors until you get enough money for a bus ride to a freightor across the Atlantic to an american port. After you get here find a job doing whatever to make enough money to pay for a bed or an apartment. After awhile or so go to school studying plastic surgery. After 6-8 years of school, internship, practice, your money will come in big time and you can get that house in the Hamptons…Or you can just marry someone who already has a home there.
Not every singer will be an AMERICAN IDOL, Not every candidate will be President. Not every man will date Beonce Knowles or Scarlett. A woman who has had a historectomy cannot get pregnant no matter how positive she is or how much faith she has.(I know of a case like this)
These are extreme examples I know, but this had to be said to display how rediculous this “THE SECRET” is. Material and social desires as well as positive thinking are wonderful, but 9 times out of 10 you will have to be in or get in a position for all your desires to manifest. The ATTRACTION is you making it happen.
Comment by Rob Wilson — March 22, 2007 @ 9:28 pm
Well i guess much of what i would have wanted to say about this pointless waste of 91 minutes of my life has been already reiterated several times here, althought i still would like to throw in my two cents.
I learnt about this book almost by mistake, i was browsing for jobs on Craigslist this morning and i found that those clowns are actually looking for some “motivated” sales people to promote the book. Now this is the funny bit, my wife comes home and tells me that a coworker lent to her a dvd that her collegue says “changed her life”… of course my wife wasn’t too surprised when she got the reaction that she got after i learnt the title of the dvd!!
She knows how anal i am about digging into things and how much i love to search for MLM and related information primarily for self amusement… based on this, such nonsense should have just glided over me in favor of those other amusing 419 emails (i received 13 messages only today, a record!!), but it didn’t and here is why:
This dvd and presumably the book (hell, no i didn’t read it, i won’t spend a cent for that trash), is not only a scam, but an insult to all the people who have dreams, goals and real life plans. I came to the US more than a year ago to be with my wife and as soon as i got here i realized my wife had been literally robbed of tens of thousands of dollars from a fraud. I won’t get into detail but she was in deep and i, as the husband i was too, at least morally. That’s one of those times when you learn that “wishing upon a star” DOESN’T DO SQUAT.
We sat together, and we put thoughts together. there was mental anguish and financial hurdles to be dealt with. First thing we did was to go out and buy a whiteboard and attached it on the fridge, there we listed all the steps we needed to go through in order to stop the collector calls, how to pay off debts, how to deal with family and friends with a straight face again. I told my wife “Before 6 months we are out of debt”.
One afternoon we decided to take our chances and see Superman Returnes… big disappointment, that guy is such a wimp! But i digress… for some reason we parked the car in one of those free parkings… you know the ones i mean. Yeah, those. We went to the movies, nice FX, nice performance by Kevin Spacey, everything else sucked. We got back to the parking lot and WOW! the car is gone.
The only cars in the parking lot belonged to a bunch of hispanic guys playing some loud rap-hip-hop-whatever and wearing colors i can’t remember. No other cars in sight, i wonder why.
Guess what? We got 4400 dollars out of the car from the insurance. I still feel like they ripped us off but still we realized that it was a start towards recovery: the same night we got the money from the insurance we put it all towards the credit card debts and collections, and everything else was pretty much friends and family who are being paid off still but at least the credit report is sort of healthy again.
I came here and there was literally no furniture in the house, we put our heads together and we got motivation… and now we have a full and alive beautiful little apartment, we can pay rent every month and afford comcast subscription (basic package of course… but who needs all the of the other crap?) two computers (one of which a laptop) and peace of mind!
It was all motivation, planning and HARD WORK.
Don’t give your money to those people. Buy a whiteboard instead and put there all your wishes. If you have the will you are the one who will make them true. If you are willing to work for them, that is.
There, my two cents.
Comment by Fabio — March 23, 2007 @ 1:27 am
Wow! This blog has been real funny bone tickler.
I am a New Thought minister, have been for many years. I have heard all the mumbo jumbo from the New Agers, the Christian Right, the Atheists, so-called Quantum Believers, the JWs, Mormons, Krishnas and all the rest. Why? New Thought is an open philosophy that listens (get that word) to all perspectives and points of view, but buys into none of them without deep scrutiny. And few are worth contemplating further.
Now, mind you, there are a lot of folks who call themselves New Thoughters that have gotten into this whole Secret thing. They have come to accept that the Law of Attraction is a real universal law like, say, the law of gravity, or the laws of thermodynamics. Wrong. The Law of Attraction is strictly, repeat STRICTLY a spiritual concept. Neither proveable nor unproveable in the scientific sense. Hence, non-scientific. Once we get past that, drop the science aspect, and move back into the spiritual realm, then we can discuss this so-called law, like the Law of Moses and such.
So, with that out of the way, a word about the Law of Attraction. It is not a law in the strictest sense but rather, a possibility. Everything that will ever be in the universe is mostlikely already here in one form or another. Your mind cannot make new stuff. It can recognize new stuff but it cannot create new stuff from nothing. When, as has been stated on many different occasions in this blog, you change your thinking and actions, your world will change. But doing that is not so simple. Why? Habitual patterns of thinking i.e. fear, anger, revenge, self-pity, and acting out get in the way. Think those habits are easy to break? Hardly. That’s why those who say all you have to do is ask, believe,then have don’t realize the intensity in changing even one opinion, let alone a lifetime of thinking habits.
New Thought stresses the essentialness of changing the mind in order to change your world, your inner world first. And it lays down many principles, suggestions, even rules that can assist in that process. But, it is not easy. Simple, yes. Easy, an unequivocal no.
Don’t underestimate the power of the mind to stop you at every turn!
For those who want to find out more about this New Thought journey, visit your local Religious Science, Unity, or Divine Science church or center. No one will try to convert you to anything. We’re here to assist. You’ll make your own decisions.
Or email me at RichardSpeaks@minister.com
PS There actually is a powerful secret, not so secret, that can get you started on a new and incredible journey. That secret is the power in changing your language, how you talk to yourself and the world. Watch your words. You’re talking yourself into or out of staying where you are right now. Here’s a challenge: for the next six weeks, count your blessings OUT LOUD. Proclaim your rarity and uniqueness OUT LOUD. Go the extra mile with your time, efforts, and dollars. Consciously choose to be of greater service. Tell yourself OUT LOUD that you have made this decision. Now, if this doesn’t work for you after six weeks, call me a quack. But, if it does, well. . .
Comment by Rev. Richard M. — March 24, 2007 @ 6:56 pm
Oh, one more thing: thanks, Andrew and all your submitters for this blog. The more skeptics who rant on about the Law of Attraction, the more those of us who are spiritually inclined can look more deeply into what we think we believe. Spiritual growth is a journey, not a done deal. Some ideas are really bogus. Skeptics give us the opportunity to root those ideas out.
Thanks again.
Comment by Rev. Richard M. — March 24, 2007 @ 7:10 pm
I see what you mean in phylosophical terms and by meaning of self help and motivation. Definitely not in terms of real world physical reality… which is incidentally where we live.
One neat thing on which i agree with you is the fact that nothing can be destroyed or created in the universe, hence everything that will ever be is already here, but i don’t believe that we can influence and rearrange already predefined universal equilibrii with our minds. Our degree of interaction is defined within the physical plane of existance and therefore we still need to stretch our arm to reach the nachos on the coffee table and drop the remote on the floor in the process while we hold the glass of wine with two fingers because it’s such a cool way to hold the glass… like everyone else.
Comment by Fabio — March 25, 2007 @ 1:35 am
“Our degree of interaction is defined within the physical plane of existance and therefore we still need to stretch our arm to reach the nachos on the coffee table and drop the remote on the floor in the process while we hold the glass of wine with two fingers because it’s such a cool way to hold the glass… like everyone else.”
Of course. It’s only common sense. We’re not suggesting that one can rearrange molecules just with the mind. It’s not even necessary to do so.
Most of the great philosophers of history have suggested that changing the mind will inevitably result in changes in surroundings. Now, just how that works, I don’t know. But I know that it does. It’s been my personal experience. For instance, the practice of tithing has always been known to produce increase for the tither. It has for me. Again, why? I don’t know. . .for certain. But I suspect that the universe is more fluid than the Objectivists may imagine, that there is some flexibility in the way mind and matter interact. It comes down to this: do I want to give it a go, or do I want to maintain the idea that all is fixed, nothing can change through my influence, and that I am simply a piece of accidental flotsam in the midst of an uncaring sea of unimaginable space and time? What is the possibility that I may indeed have some power in all this? Am I so unwilling to think it possible that I will go down in flames before allowing the possibility of my own power?
As I reach for the remote, I am reminded of how powerful my brain/body connection is. Without that interaction, the remote out of reach.
Don’t sell the interaction of all things short. You have more power than you give yourself credit for. And even if you don’t believe that, I’ll believe it for you. Because I know it’s true.
Comment by Rev. Richard M. — March 25, 2007 @ 9:29 am
21/2 years ago I left a miserable marriage full of control, bitterness, hate and two beautiful children who we both adored. I walked out with enough money for a rental for one month not knowing when I would get another paycheck as I work as a realtor.
I had noone to rely upon but myself, my husband was not working (his choice) and not only was I responsible for my bills but his. He blamed me for everything.
With sheer hard work, determination and BELIEF in what I was doing and what I could do I now live in a $2 million home, I have a brand new Lincoln SUV, I will earn over $2 million this year. I still take care of my ex husband pay for his house and all his bills BUT we are friends. My one goal was to protect my kids. My ex husband is not capable of being positive or nice on his own. Money was the only way to make things right so he would be nice so that is what I did.
Visualising what I wanted was the key element. I did not sit on my butt, ask for everything and wait for it to happen. I visualised what it was that I wanted and needed then set out on a plan to accomplish the goal. Did I meet the right people who put me in touch with more people who I needed to make contact with – you bet!!!! Did things just show up – you bet!!! Do things still continue to – you bet.
Positive thinking and belief by their very nature will accomplish results. If you are not ready to be aware of these concepts you are not ready. When you are – hold on for the ride. It is FUN
Comment by Cathy W — March 25, 2007 @ 6:08 pm
Ive did a little research of my own on the secret, and every person who was in that movie have direct links to the other ones product and services and testaments from one and other on there websites, a lot of ppl are making money through this, its a whole web.
Comment by Lee — March 26, 2007 @ 9:06 am
There isnt one thing wrong with positive thinking. “Most” of what is in the movie and book is worth every penny. Waking up everyday grateful and positive could benefit anyone in any situation. People are taking the “wishing for a million dollar” thing a little too literally. But they are telling you to think big if that is what your after. Not everyone wants to be a millionare. Some people want contentment. And that feeling is different for everyone. What makes one person content is not what makes the others feel that way. If you look at the people who have used this theory, (Jesus, Einstein, Churchill, Aerostatle) It would be pretty hard to deny it all.
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Pingback by » What the hell should I do with this blog? - Web Publishing Blog — March 30, 2007 @ 3:12 am
You are really stupid that’s all I have to say. Either you didn’t understand the movie correctly. No you just can’t sit on your ass and think then it will come true. When they said ask that means ask yourself what can I do to get this or that in life. Of course people like you may want to sit on their ass to think straight cuz that’s all you do. Hey fat ass here is a secret. You know what a gym is it’s like you walk your ass in there and not sit on a computer, then you buy a membership and workout. Take a hike or starve yourself please then die.
Comment by Crissy Snow — April 2, 2007 @ 6:05 pm
The basis for the secret is spiritual delusion. Thinking that you will become a God or like a God (Also Mormon and in Some Jehovah Witness Circles beleif).
Thus harnessing this power you will get whatever you want.
The Basis of this is Theosophy. The modern movement was started by helena blavatsky. Hitler and the Thule society adhered to this as well. Harnessing their minds and actions to destroy and control and onquer others they deemed inferior.
True it is in the bible where Jesus says pray for the sick 2 or more of you and i will be there.
Seek and you shall find ask and you shall receive with hard work, with a positive mindset in whatever circumstances you are in.
Not as easy as i think therefore i am. I think therefore the secret is straight bullshit..haha..but yeah..watch the movie the pursuit of happiness..truly that is the secret..dedication, disicipline, hard work, positive thinking with positive action and a positive faith that through all the shit u go through with a good conscious a good heart you will find happiness…and on that road you will find God as well.
God Bless
Comment by Mike Nicholas — April 3, 2007 @ 4:11 pm
“The Secret” is a way to use media and drama to reach out and show people that there is hope in this rapidly sinking world of disparity and evil. My God Andrew, I just heard on the news about 5th graders having sex in a school classroom, and you want to complain that someone is spreading happy thoughts. Maybe your the one who could use some life prospective. I don’t really go for the entire spill about “think it and receive it”, but I do believe that positive thoughts while working to obtain it will lead to success, and negative thoughts draw negative actions. I am my own best example. Every 5 years I subscribe to think that in another 5 years I will earn twice as much. And every 5 years I do. Of course I work my @ss off to get it, but without thinking of what I wanted I’d probably be a very good poor unemployed programmer. Now I run my own business and have a high paying career, the money just rolls in.
Imagine it, live it and be it, work to obtain it, believe you deserve it and can have it, then be brave enough to receive and accept it. That’s my secret.
Frankly I think there’s 3 people: Those who are contempt or unconcerned with materials and accept things as is, they are just here and have no ambition except to have fun, couch potatoes. Those who wish but believe they can’t, they are negative in thought and in action. And those who want it and know they can have it, they think positively and every action benefits their goals. If Monday night Football doesn’t benefit this person, he doesn’t watch it, total devotion, emersion, focus, dedication, and discipline.
Comment by Clint — April 4, 2007 @ 8:32 am
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Comment by Matthew James — April 4, 2007 @ 6:49 pm
You seems to be very negative upon The Secrets aka the law of attraction.
Time and time again the Principle works, i can even named you names that has been practicing the law of attraction.
True, Handworks does play a part in Success, but more important Hardworks without the right mind will not go else where too.
Go to http://www.scienceofgettingprosperous.com/ get yourself a copy of the highly exclusive interview with Bob Proctor and see it yourself.
Comment by Sern Yi — April 17, 2007 @ 1:51 am
ya know what the law of attraction is initially people???????????? ITS SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thats what gets people together(being sexually attracted to each other).It doesnt keep them together in the long term because having sex with the same person after a while becomes boring.Thats when your personallities come into it.But rest be assured robbie williams aint gonna get it on with a chick hes not sexually attracted to(unless hes in it for something else than sexual gratification)and neithers angelina jolie gonna get it on with some bloke shes not sexually attracted to NO MATTER HOW MUCH THEY WISH IT AND THINK THEY KNOW THE SECRET.This is another one of those new age american sourced money making crap pyramid multi marketing shit.The secret to success and making money is using your natural apptitudes in areas yor good at(talents)and the secret to getting laid is to be sexually attractive(even if it requires plastic surgery) and the only people spending money on this fucking dvd will be the gullible stupid vulnerable easily led dumbbells.
Comment by peter — April 17, 2007 @ 11:40 am
Hi Andrew,
This is the first time I read about someone who dislikes The Secret and the Law of Attraction…
The Law of Attraction really works! It works well for me.
You should read free report about Law of Attraction by Bob Proctor and Stephen Pierce, Attraction Accelerator.
You’ll see that Law of Attraction really works.
You just need to:
1. Ask
2. Believe
3. Receive
Cheers,
Aldian
Comment by Aldian Prakoso — April 17, 2007 @ 10:27 pm
Is it just me, or do some of the pro-Secret messages in this thread sound a tad contrived? The people behind the film are slick marketers, but do they actually have staffers who cruise the net, spreading glowing testimonials wherever they go?
At any rate, anybody who has listened to a motivational speaker at a professional conference knows that there is nothing secret about “The Secret.” It’s the same old self-help message, now garnished with some pseudoscientific and New Agey trappings. You have to admire how they have milked a fortune out of such a hackneyed idea, though.
Comment by Shawn — April 22, 2007 @ 7:34 pm
I happened to hear about ‘The Secret’ buzz on a local radio station recently and rented a DVD copy from Netflix to see what this was all about. I’ve always been interested in new age concepts and thought this could be intriguing.
My wife and I started watching and within 5 minutes couldn’t stop giggling and downright laughing at the sheer lunacy of this marketing scam! The quality of the video is like a Saturday Night Live skit – in fact, I wish SNL would do a parody of ‘The Secret’ – it would be hilarious.
Let’s start with Andrew’s comment on MSC.D – I quote “• Doctor of Metaphysical Science, Msc.D. Good for anyone who wishes to deal with all areas of Metaphysics, i.e. teaching, counseling, healing, and ministry.”
But, wait!
“*The title “Doctor of Metaphysical Science,†and the degree letters “Msc.D.†and “Doctor of Metaphysical Counseling,†and the degree letters “Mc.D†are copyrighted and may not be used by any other school or organization. ”
Copyrighted?! Yes, Joe Vitale might be a very good speaker (I refuse to call him a Dr.), nice guy and great marketer. However, a Metaphysician? There is no academic degree called Metaphysician, folks. Yes, you can buy a degree with any name – however, the only recognized academic degree would be an accredited Masters or PhD in Philosophy or a Doctor of Divinity from a Seminary.
As you keep watching it – more marketers appear than experts. Oh oh! Shouldn’t that tell you something? Hey, we have a bunch of rich, materialistic, successful marketers who say – believe and you shall receive. Dream/visualize about a new bike, car, home, money and you will get it. Guess what, they already have it and understand how to market to the masses to get more of it.
I kept waiting for Tony Robbins, Carleton Sheets, and Don Lapre to chime in. Lapre would be great – ‘…just by placing tiny want ads with your dreams you can achieve anything…’ I’m sure Robbins is smarting that he didn’t think of this.
Look, I do think there is something to the power of positive thinking, creative visualization and creating your own reality. But folks, come-on! This is pure 101 marketing – just go to Bob Protor’s site and see all the goodies you can buy!
Enough said. Now, back to my visualization of my future date with Halle Berry….
Comment by Don — April 23, 2007 @ 12:14 pm
The Secret is a crock alright. I do believe that there is a group of people that have devised a scheme to milk people of their money not just once,but over and over again.Robert Scheinfeld is part of this group also. He wrote “Busting Loose From the Money Game”. When you compare all of these different programs that are presented as self help, you will see that there is a definite similarity between them all. Basically what they’re saying is get in on this B.S. and market it in your own words and make a million bucks by being the suckee, and not the sucker.
Comment by Rene — April 23, 2007 @ 2:35 pm
Don, I totally agree with you about the fact that The Secret is a marketing ploy. Which is really annoying because I very strongly believe in the principle of positive thinking and mind over matter – very strongly. I believe you can make anything in life happen if you focus on it and work towards it. But i am irritated by the fact that they claim it is a new discovery that no one knew about. It feels to me like a hyped up marketing ploy to sell a few extra books. Almost like a get rich quick scheme or the booha around the davinci code – all just a marketing ploy. I guess what I am saying is that it is a pity that they didn’t let the power of The law of attraction speak for itself an do its “magic”. It detracts from what it could have been.
Comment by V — April 27, 2007 @ 4:47 pm
The law of attraction is absoluty for real. It only works if you focus your mind on one thing at a time. And you must be an absolute positive thinker 24/7.
That means no negetivity in your inner world what so ever. You ask and receive! It is a steping process of change. You mind has to adjust in reprograming your thoughts in order to create good. Once you aquire that technigue, then things will come. Their are several steps of the taken. Right down what you are asking for, beleive that you have it now. Make a graitude list. Act and do things for others, or give.
Meditation is a key factor in it as well, also the divine grace of God.
Go out and purchase the book written by Ester and Abraham Hicks- Ask and he shall receive. He is well known. Their is no magic in it what so ever, it is faith, in God and the Universe. There are several thousands of people with great expericances and testimoinal. When you train your mind to become absoluty positive and no negetive. And take the small steps that are required. The challange that you go through in changing for the better is called resisistance. Hope this is benifical for the who are in doubt. It takes time to re route your thinking. When you do this, you will expericance joy , and inner being of selfawareness of who you are. Positive attracts good, negetive attracts bad things in your life.
Comment by N. — April 28, 2007 @ 8:51 am
Most religion practice some form of the Law Of Attraction. Its an ancient philisophy, Throught prayer or chanting, the mind is brought to a focus on the desired outcome.
Comment by Thomas — April 28, 2007 @ 9:18 pm
Whether you are into the “Secret” or not… Positive thinking is always a good thing. I don’t think one person here disputes that. But where’s the secret? Is it in the Laws of Attraction? Har har. Life and the pursuit of happiness is much more complicated than just Laws of Attraction and positive thinking. Some of the negative things that happen in life are also one of the greatest experiences and lessons in life. If the “secret” is so great why is the information so limited until you actually purchase into something? Why does Google and Yahoo searches lead to requiring my email and name to receive more information? It’s the same tactics used in money making programs or late night infomercials. If this is such an amazing wowweee super duper secret – why doesn’t Oprah spend her billions of dollars to get this information spread around the world?
I used to respect Oprah but after researching about her over the top wealth building media company, spending habits, relationship problems, hypocritcal environmental issues, and the payment scheme for endorsing/mentioning books in her book club… it’s disappointing that a person with all of the money in the world would want to peddle and endorse junk like “the Secret”. Shame on you Oprah. Maybe that’s why you go up and down with your weight… Feeling guilty?
Comment by Nicholas — April 29, 2007 @ 12:56 am
This movie and its underlying philosophy are about the biggest crocks of [expletive deleted] I have ever seen. Anyone who buys into this deserves to be treated as the idiot he is. Just remember: a positive thought and 50 cents will get you a phone call.
Comment by KAR — May 1, 2007 @ 11:25 pm
60 comments above me, most of it says “The Secret” is crap. Ask, Believe, Receive?? okay.. We “Ask” for this crap to stop! We “Believe” this crap would stop! Hey?? wheres the “receiving” part? When is this crap going to stop? uh-oh.. looks like we’ve channelled all our negative energy towards “The Secret”, and it aint gonna stop! Ppl will keep talking about it! Ppl will still come here and give comments about it! And “The Secret” is still here!! OMG! Does this means that it does work?? heh heh heh heh…
Comment by I visualize the end of earth — May 10, 2007 @ 3:46 am
Some say it works, some say it does not!
I for one knows it can work both way. Apply the Law correctly, and you get positive results, apply it wrongly and you get all the thing you never wanted.
Bob Proctor has release a new report that let us in on that missing ingredient. If you want the Law to work properly, you simply have to read it.
Greatest lesson life has taught me. Take it from here.
http://www.gettingrichsciencesecret.com/freereport
Comment by John L — May 10, 2007 @ 10:21 am
Yeah, the guys who slug that crap at you are full on marketering freaks…..one hell of a way to make a dollar, and make people feel happy for a while.
Positive thinking is bliss, does work wonders, how many booze hounds down at the local pub just whine about the school of hard knocks, rather then what they can, physically achieve, definitely changed my life a quite a bit…….
As for the whole meta crazy acid freak spirituality scenario, take a look at a movie called “How far down the rabbit hole”……if you can swallow it…….
Stay cool all
smile
Stegs
Comment by Steve — May 13, 2007 @ 6:59 am
Wow. I feel sorry for so many of you… totally missing out and stuck in a place of pessimism. Everyone creates their own reality whether you believe it or are aware of it or not. Every religion and philosophy has taught this from the beginning of time. I’ve been into the law of attraction for several years and have applied the principles to almost every aspect of my life. I have written down exactly what I’ve wanted in great detail and watched it come to fruition… EVERY TIME including the complete healing of my newborn son who they said the day after he was born wouldn’t survive longer than an hour. He is not only alive and well, but suffered absolutely no brain damage regardless of the fact that his blood saturation level was less than 30% for 36 hours… no developmental delays–nothing wrong with him. My sister in law is a neonatologist and said that he had no chance of survival–his miraculous recovery not only baffled the minds of her and all the doctors in this hospital, no medical explanation can be made by anyone other than a miracle. I described his homecoming to a tee… when it would happen, how it would happen, who the discharge staff would be, what music would be on the radio on the way home, etc. It all happened just as I created. I think that there are just some people–many of you– who are so addicted to the drama of the human experience and don’t want to acknowledge that they are the sole creator of their life experience… because blaming society or government or their abusive parents or alcoholic spouses or the fact that they were sexually abused, etc for their problems is a whole lot easier–or lazier–than taking full responsibility for their lives. Stop being addicted to being a victim. I’ve lived both lives– the victim (which is really an illusion…there’s no such thing as a victim) and the conscious creator. From now on, I choose to be a conscious creator rather one who creates crap by default. What would it hurt to try a new way of looking at life? So many of you are just pissed off that these teachers have mastered their thinking and have created abundance in their lives (all of them far before The Secret was created), and you’re too lazy or stubborn to attempt to change your mindset in order to do the same for yourself. Wake up. Quit feeling sorry for yourselves. You’re doing such a disservice to yourself. What a wasted life to be so negative and pessimistic. If you’d spend as much time focusing on the incredible gifts life has to offer as you do on bashing The Secret and its teachers, you’d be amazed at the perfect life you could create.
Comment by KJ — May 15, 2007 @ 1:23 am
I say “good on themâ€. I wished I could come up with a scam like this. It’s actually quite amazing how many people are more than willing to believe in crap like this…
How long is it gonna take me to complete my degree just by wishing?
How long is it gonna take for me to score with Paris Hilton, just by believing?
But on the other hand, this shouldn’t be surprising to us, just consider how many religious people are there… It’s the same shit really…
Comment by The Believer — May 17, 2007 @ 6:31 am
God is King. He rules and those who reject his love reject all that is good within and without the universe. No secret, no mind power, no focus, desire, thought or universe or energy exists without God having first breathed life into it. Rather than thinking, wanting and taking ‘inspired’ action to get a million dollars and a BMW, accept Jesus, meditate on him and all other things will be added after that. Look for him and you shall find a treasure chest worth more than any precious thing on this earth. God bless you all.
Comment by Ray — May 17, 2007 @ 9:26 am
I have practiced the Law of Attraction for more than 40 years, I’ve coached hundreds of people to use it, and I’ve personally seen amazing results over and over. I have no need to defend its power. Besides, too many other people here have already done a great job clearing up the misconceptions.
The one thing I would like to comment on is your belief that the secret to success is hard work. If you continue that belief, you will continue to work hard all of your life. Working hard is the “worst” way to make money or be successful. Look at the highly successful people. Do they look like they are working hard? I don’t think so. They do work they are passionate about (so it’s not work), they work smart, and they have the right mindset to guarantee success.
Aim High!
LaVera
http://www.laveragaston.com
Comment by LaVera Gaston — May 18, 2007 @ 10:53 am
Personally, I believe success boils down to the following:
1-Positive thinking
Allows you to spot opportunities that would have otherwise gone unnoticed if you had a negative, I can’t mentality.
I’m sure you’ve had this happen to you: You learn a new word that you never know before. Suddenly, you keep finding that word in an ad, newspaper, book..etc even though you never noticed it before.
Opportunities are the same thing. If you’re open up to see opportunities with an “I can” attitude, you will see them, otherwise they will go unnoticed.
Positive thinking also programs the subconscious to come up with creative solutions. Being an architect, the creative design process involves defining the problem, thinking about all possible solutions very hard, then letting go and doing something completely different while the subconcious mind begins manifesting a solution. This is when you get a sudden spark or great idea you never considered before. That is the subconscious at work.
2-Incremental improvement
If you’re making 50k/year, strive for 75 then 100 then 125 and so on. Breaking up ambitions in small increments allows them to happen.
3-Persistance
Success follws 3 steps. Problem then struggle then enlightment. Enlightment comes after you’ve hit rock bottom! after you think you’ve exhausted all possible means. After you’re energy is completely drained! It just works that way. If you give up during the struggle phase, you won’t reach enlightment. Persist, learn from mistakes, try again and again.
4-Total flexibility
Keep trying different solutions, approaches, angles..etc. Don’t get stuck ! Always keep moving and you will eventually get there.
Comment by Hosam — May 24, 2007 @ 2:01 pm
As a 15yr old girl, researching The Secret for a school assignment I have come to a conclusion. According to The Secret I am responcible for my crappy home situation. Would you like to hear? My Dad, who has bipolar, abused me in front of my entire family and 2 weeks later told me it was my fault.
That was last year. I have had to live with him, pretending he didn’t leave a bruise the size of a pillow on my back and pretending I haven’t noticed that he still hasn’t apologized.
Mum keeps making excuses for him and my older sister blames me for the hate between Mum and Dad. Now, if I listened to The Secret then apparently my negative vibes are responsible for my home life and if I had just been thinking positive then all would be good.
Well guess what! All you adults, with your perfect lives and well fed bank accounts are believing in a loud of crap and you don’t even have the conscience to know what’s right instead of being told by a multi-million dollar empire. Next time some one tells you that you’re responsible for what other people do to you just tell them to shut up and think of all the kids who have no power over their lives and don’t have the $30 dollars to go buy some fucked up dvd.
Comment by surfin — May 27, 2007 @ 10:27 pm
The Secret is a perfect formula of “Just World Hypothesis” blended with self-centered, self serving materialism and the narcissism that the whole YOUniverse revolves each and every one of us and we can have anything and everything we want because we are like little gods.
Right, whatever… Coming from a rich white woman that might sound appealing and make sense, BUT there is this thing called REALITY.
It is no surprise this garbage is spreading like wild fire in a fat, over-indulgent, extremely prosperous country like America after being pimped by Oprah and other new age flake celebs.
Try selling this “name it and claim” stupidity in Sudan or Iraq or India or the slums of Brazil.
Nothing new here folks.
Just better marketing, celebrity endorsement and decadent western society is more gullible and selfish than ever and runs to any quack that can make them feel good about their lack of compassion, contentment and insane selfishness.
To think that positive thinking is what brings you riches is asinine.
Hard work, creativity, intelligence, diligence, education helps ALONG with positive, realistic thinking for those who have morals and a sense of right and wrong.
You can will that new Ferrari, house, boat into “manifesting” all you want but if you don’t have the means or the credit score it is not going to drop into your life like the author wants you to believe.
You are not going to win the lottery by concentrating really, really, hard and eliminating negative thoughts. This is just plain dumb.
Many evil people use “the Secret” style of thinking in areas like drug dealing, theft, rape, war etc. They are visualizing their needs and wants and taking them with force no matter who it hurts. Corporations do it every day, now we want the average individual to become as soulless and self-serving as the criminals in society?
Also, to think that all tragedy is somehow the victims
fault is tragic and ignorance at it’s ugliest.
Ask child born with birth defects if was their parent’s negative or their negativity while forming in the womb. Who is to blame?
Primitive religions blamed the devil, now we blame negative thoughts?
Also, rape and molestation victims, genocide victims, theft victims, accident victims, cancer victims, natural disaster are all to blame for their situations?
Blame seems to be a common theme in the Secret. No thanks, had enough of that with bible which is why I am a free thinking, critical thinking atheist now.
This moron author thinks she can control the weather with her mind!!!
Positive thinking and new age super faith could
have stopped Katrina or the 9/11 attacks?
IDIOCY.
Unless you want to be infected with a mind virus that is very dangerous for society, stay far away from this garbage.
Comment by GrafxGuru — May 28, 2007 @ 7:23 am
You are 100% spot on. THE SECRET IS THE BIGGEST LOAD OF BULLSHIT I HAVE EVER HEARD OF. IN LIFE YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE GOOD LUCK AND BAD LUCK, WINNERS AND LOSERS. I DO BELIEVE IN POSITIVE THINKING BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST LOOKING FOR AN EXCUSE TO JUSTIFY THEIR PATHETIC LIVES. IT IS NO DIFFERENT FROM A RELIGIOUS CULT. THE ONLY REAL WINNERS OF THE SECRET ARE THE SO CALLED PROFESSORS PROMOTING THIS CRAP.
Comment by steve — May 28, 2007 @ 10:06 pm
If you honestly believe in The Secret then I’m not angry at you.
I pity you
Comment by NONbeliever — May 29, 2007 @ 1:52 am
If you honestly believe in The Secret then I’m not angry at you.
I pity you…
Comment by NONbeliever — May 29, 2007 @ 1:53 am
It’s been a couple of months since I last joined in this discussion. Nothing has changed. The believers believe, the non-believers disbelieve. Since I last participated, much has happened in my life. Money came in from unexpected sources; opportunities to guest speak at a number of churches and organizations; exciting new people. And of course, a broken CD burner/workstation, summer window shades blowing down, slicing my finger with a sharp knife-twice, two friend died. You know, the usual stuff. That’s how life works. Some good, some not so good. But how do I continue to view my life? Simple. As a gift, as a blessing. Hence, very few if any regrets. Mistakes? Plenty. Regrets? Hardly. Why? They don’t serve my purposes. I got tired of holding onto my self-pity. Just like most of you are doing at this very moment. I got tired of being angry for “absolutely justifiable reasons” as I’ve heard so many of you say. I gave up the need to be right all the time, to be offended or hurt if not noticed, to feel venegeful even if I didn’t practice revenge.
Letting all that crap go changes your mind. It opens up new possibilities, new ideas, new avenues of expression. You become a better person. You make the world a bit better by your presence than it was before you got here.
No outside god, no law of attraction, no secret can cause all that. It comes with a change of mind, of heart, of action. It’s the most difficult decision you’ll ever make. . .and the most important.
This is the only place, time, and purpose there is. Quit being so damn selfish. Come and save the world. You’re the only one who can.
Sermon done. Have a great life.
Comment by Rev. Richard — May 29, 2007 @ 12:51 pm
This so called ‘Secret’ reminds me of the scam still being pulled by Robert Kiyosaki with his Rich Dad, Poor Dad fictional series. (For those of you who didn’t research it – RICH DAD NEVER EXISTED!!!) In both scams, people expect great rewards for very little effort and the whole premise is built on ‘proof’ that falls apart under even mild scrutiny. There will always be desperate suckers hoping for that free lunch. Most of them won’t admit to being duped because that would be admitting they were silly enough to be duped. So they’ll go on believing this tripe long after their cash is gone and nothing has ever been achieved and they’ll pass it off by telling themselves that they probably didn’t ‘believe’ hard enough so they better just keep on trying until is does. It’s the same dilemma with praying… you pray hard for something but it doesn’t happen, so you think you didn’t pray hard enough or that it’s God’s will you didn’t get it… It’s a NO WIN situation and impossible to prove. It’s the delusional wishful thinking of an unhappy mind is what it is.
In this age of the Internet and instantaneous information, I still can’t believe that there are people who would jump into a scam without at least researching it first. It’s pretty easy… you just fire up your search engine and type in the name of whatever the latest cure-all is and the word ‘SCAM’. There were more bad hits for Kiyosaki and this Secret that I could ever hope to get through.
The REAL Secret is to keep working hard, saving as much as you can and raising a respectful family. Your dreams won’t fall into your lap just by straining a few braincells over it.
There are so many gullible people in the world. Sadly, they’ll still be sitting there, meditating in their happy place and visualizing wealth and world peace as terrorists slowly gain a foothold and destroy everything around them. Grow a brain, people! Just because Oprah says something is real, doesn’t mean it really IS. SHE’S a billionaire and she got that way by playing on people’s hopes and emotions – much like the perpetrators of these scams are doing.
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So your conclusion is “thinking positive” doesn’t work? What about planning? I guess thinking, dreaming and planning are all just a waste of time?
Yeah, it’s true none of that matters if you don’t get off the couch. But you’re a genius, you already knew that.
Congratulations on being a freakin moron.
No really.
Comment by Jeff Hendrickson — July 31, 2007 @ 6:50 am
What is the definition of a secret? Isn’t a secret something that no one else knows? Then how come everyone is promoting this secret? It obviously isn’t a secret because if it was no one would know about it. I think if you look at the root of all of this you will find that it is money. Someone will give you a secret or formula or program if you give them 29.99. These people like others promoting similar things are preying on the weaknesses of human nature in order to make money.
This kind of reminds me of so called wealthy gurus willing to give you the secret to success for 29.99. If they really were wealthy why would they need to sell books, etc. for 29.99. Wouldn’t they be busy building their empires instead of peddling their wares on the internet. Or maybe, that is how they make their money. Buy selling information and programs to teach other people how to make money.
I’m sure any intelligent person can reason this all out and see how ridiculous it really is. The more people that they can get to believe this nonsense the bigger money bags they will be able to deposit at the bank.
Secrets aren’t secrets if everyone knows about it.
I have a secret about the secret. There isn’t one!
Comment by Linda — August 1, 2007 @ 8:09 am
Its not the messenger, its the message!
Science presupposes the existence of an objective reality ONLY. In other words, the observer and the observed are independent of each other. So Science can only work in a field that you believe in… ie Objective Reality.
But I suggest otherwise. Science and Objective Reality exist WITHIN Subjective Reality. The Observed cannot be observed without the Observer entering into the equation. Your bias and beliefs shape the thing, situation or event you are perceiving. Einstein said this, look it up. And so did Jesus. Look it up or I’ll quote it for you…
And the Lord said, ‘Behold, the people are one, and they have all one language; and this is only the beginning of what they will do: and now nothing will be restrained from them, which they have imagined to do.
Genesis 11:6
“It is done Unto you, as you have believed.”
That was 2,000 years ago. Long before you and I were born. Since then, every great person who has accomplished something has talked about it including Albert Einstein, Henry Ford, Andrew Carnegie, Napolean Hill.
What the Secret Left out is that We are spiritual beings far more than we are body or mind beings. This is very important.
Remember Action is an integral part of achieving your goals, but it never has to be a struggle. After all, every action and word arise from thought.
The Feeling good part keeps you in touch with inspired action. The exact action required to accomplish whatever it is you want at the exact time so that you don’t have to struggle.
Feeling good also keeps away negative thought, so you won’t be creating unwanted scenarios.
It maybe hard for you to accept that thought creates because all this time you have struggled and worked hard so now it seems like it didn’t have to be that way.
Wake up and smell the coffee! Don’t use your own power to make yourselves Impotent Gods.
Comment by Michael — August 1, 2007 @ 8:15 pm
Excuse me Michael. But you don’t know Jesus based on what you have written. You have taken select scriptures and referenced them out of context.
Subjective reality? Does not the Bible say the heart is deceitful above all things, who can know it? Does this not show that you can deceive yourself? And since you have deceived yourself you wouldn’t think that you were deceived but that doesn’t mean that you aren’t. It doesn’t matter what a person thinks if it is not in line with reality. Perceptions can vary but reality is constant.
The reference in Genesis you gave is regarding the Tower of Babel. God confused the languages to prevent them from continuing to build the tower. Why? Because God already knew the destructive force of sinful man multiplied and the negative consequences.
It is done unto you as you have believed? I believe that you are referring to the faith of the centurion here. Again, taken out of context. This verse is referring to the centurion having faith in Christ to heal his servant it is not referring to faith in himself.
Don’t use your own power to make yourselves Impotent Gods? What on earth are you implying here? Are you saying that you are God? This is blasphemy! I think that you need to take a more realistic and accurate assessment of who you are and who God is and who you are in relation to who God is. Lucifer wanted to be like the most high too. Look what happened to him? This thinking that you are God when you are not only serves to feed your foolish pride and by doing so you are damning your own soul. So even though you think that you are evolving you are actually going backwards and you don’t even know it since you have let yourself believe falsehoods.
This lie was first perpetuated by the serpent aka the devil in the garden of eden with eve. And the same old trick is still being used today under the guise of New Age philosophy which is not really new at all but just the same old recycled garbage.
P.S. As for feeling good. Christ was also a man of many sorrows. I don’t think Christ felt good when he was hanging on the cross and taking upon himself the sins of the world, do you?
Comment by Linda — August 2, 2007 @ 2:06 am
Hi,
We could discuss this to no end. In the end it comes down to what you and I believe.
I don’t believe anybody can tell me what God is, or what God said. I choose to believe certain parts of the Bible and not others. This was written by people who wouldn’t know Christ from a man walking on the street. They wrote it for that time period and for what was passed down by word. Not only that, they could have been very well edited and I believe have been, to suit the needs of powerful men in powerful positions.
I cannot believe that I am a born sinner. This fear- based Ideology is required by the Church to survive. Every institution looks for survival, as does the Church.
I cannot believe that I was created with free will, yet bound by commandments. I cannot believe that there is a hell… but for my own created hell here on earth of unwanted circumstances.
I can believe that Jesus was just like me and evolved much faster and became God-Realized… from where he said “I and my father are One”.
I can believe God is a compassionate God and not a vengeful God for what about God can be hurt?
I believe Sex was created by God to enjoy and celebrate our bodies. For how can something that feels so good, be so bad?
If you think with common sense, you have all your answers.
In the end, you may call me misguided and I may think of you as the same… but I wish you Good Luck wherever you ‘choose’ to go.
P.S. Also in subjective reality, you love everyone and everything as You. You not the body, but you the Consciousness, incase anybody else was curious.
I am out,
Michael.
I have said, Ye are gods; and all of you are children of the most High.
Psalm 82:6
Comment by Michael — August 2, 2007 @ 9:50 am
You know, I want to think I have an open mind. I was with the secret for about 5 seconds on positive thinking. It makes sense to my brain that if you mentally focus on the positive, life is better for you. I am with them there.
They lose me when its all “material things with your mind” and “stay away from your friend with cancer because their negative thoughts will bring you down.”
That and, holy god, was the book poorly written. It could have been a good 1/3 shorter if they had tightened up the writing and stopped repeating themselves.
I could rant all day. I will spare you my rant. If you really want to know how I felt about it, visit my url above, I feel it captures it rather well.
Comment by HE — August 22, 2007 @ 11:15 am
“This ’secret’ is ancient knowledge. It is, simply, ‘you become what you think about’.”
Bullshit, what a way to ensnare legions of gullible fools — by appeasing to their sense of material want.
At any rate, if the Buddhists contend that thought puts distance between you and the universe, which I’d rather tend to think is more accurate, precisely upon what angle of reasoning does the above come about?
You want “ancient knowledge”? How about the Hindu declaration that there is no answer to the “you” problem? If “I” am unquantifyable, upon what does The Secret revolve exactly, since its core effect is to materialize that which “I” think about? What am I? What are YOU? Answer that.
- U
Comment by The Uncreated — September 13, 2007 @ 3:13 pm
“This ’secret’ is ancient knowledge. It is, simply, ‘you become what you think about’.”
Bullshit, what a way to ensnare legions of gullible fools — by appeasing to their sense of material want.
At any rate, if the Buddhists contend that thought puts distance between you and the universe, which I’d rather tend to think is more accurate, precisely upon what angle of reasoning does the above come about?
You want “ancient knowledge”? How about the Hindu declaration that there is no answer to the “you” problem? If “I” is ultimately unquantifyable, upon what does The Secret revolve exactly, since its core effect is to materialize that which “I” think about? What am I? What are YOU? Answer that.
- U
Comment by The Uncreated — September 13, 2007 @ 3:14 pm
Hey REV.
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU WANTING FOR MONEY ANYWAY?
YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF.
ALL OF YOU BELIEVERS SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF.
IF ANY OF YOU WERE TRULY ENLIGHTENED YOU WOULD REALIZE THE SECRET IS ONE THING…LOVE.
WITHOUT IT MONEY OR ANYTHING ELSE FOR THAT MATTER IS WORTHLESS.
YOU ALL ARE A BUNCH OF FOOLS.
Comment by kevin — October 28, 2007 @ 7:35 pm
I just watched The Secret the other day. I found it very interesting to be quite honest. Since I’m fairly confident that neither yourself or any of the other hard workers here know where life began, what it is, what is beyond the stars, where does space end, etc.etc., I dont know that you are in a position to write this off as total garbage. I know the power of positive thinking, especially in sports. Sometimes you can go and and golf in the low 70′s and have all the confidence in the world, and other times you can’t hit a shot all day. Same body, different mind set. Is it at all possible that this isn’t about making wishes and waiting for them to come true, but a whole way of changing your outlook on life and allowing good things to happen, or come to you? Quanum Physics I find fascinating, and while I’m not sold on this idea just yet, I’m not totally ruling out the concept. There’s some reason Rosie O’Donnell is rich and we’re not, and it’s not talent.
Comment by Ken — October 30, 2007 @ 5:55 pm
This guy is just some d*pshit using advertising methods designed to create fear and then point you in the direction of his product for salvation. he has no idea was the secret is, but he knows if you look it up you’ll come across his link. he creates fear you’ll get scammed by the secret so then you purchase his P.O.S product
Comment by tal — November 6, 2007 @ 2:29 pm
‘The Secret’ is the absolute dumbest thing I’ve ever heard of and read! What about the people who have been thinking positive on winning the lotto all these years and have not won? Shouldn’t The Secret apply to them as well? Parents whose children are dying of cancer…did they dwell on this thought and hope for it to happen to their innocent children? People who read self-help books are simply not in charge of their lives and always looking for someone to lead them into the ‘promised land’. They have no clue about getting things done on their own so, they turn to these books for things they cannot do and have no confidence in themselves! My ex-girlfriend Jenny has a shelf full of ‘self-help’ books. she is a prime example of these pathetic people.
Comment by Kevin — November 10, 2007 @ 9:49 am
Yeah!!!this Jerry & Esther Hicks okay i will quit my job stay home ask for my morgage or rent my bills and it will come to me full of crap only simple mind people fall into this scam why is the goverment is allowing this how can you sit home and receive money out of the air they are just making money selling this crap to these people this is like gambling the goverment should step into this crap and get rid of it wait wait i’ll buy a lotto ticket and win hahahahaha yeah listen you have to work to get rich as they say no pain no gain i thing we should sue the goverment for this insanity so a 3 year old has cancer did he ask for it???? 3month old baby did she ask to die???? ester and hick we are going to sue your ass for millions for deceiving so many poor people what goes around comes around look at you you are old ask to be young again like yo are going to get you and your husband are f**k**d you are a cult i think FBI shold get involved in this money making fraud this is pure fraud. okay send me $1,000.000.00 dollars if you beileive this is to be true i dare you ester and hicks show me how true you are
Comment by Richard — November 19, 2007 @ 3:54 am
What works is being positive & believing in yourself. If the Secret awakens people & inspires them, then what’s so wrong about that?
I was given The Secret by a friend & shelved it for a couple of months til another friend told me I should watch it. I am a very skeptical person & watched the DVD with, well, skepticism. However, it really had me thinking because there was no avoiding the reality that everything I own, do and/or have in my life I thought about it, worked for it, acquired it, brought it into my life and gravitated to it …on my own.
Anyway, at the time I was having some relationship issues and was willing to try anything, so I went out bought a slew of magazines & cut & pasted photos & words pertaining to what I wanted to draw towards myself. It worked. I got everything I wanted.
I then bought 5 copies for my friends. Two of them are avid Secreters now & they too are having results.
A few things about the Secret is that you cannot “dream”, “want”, “wish”, “hope”, or “doubt.”
Some things take time, even months, others are instant. The mind also thinks in “absolutes” & its best to never to Secret words or ideas with two meanings (no idioms.) When I started Secreting I started with a few small material items, which came to me within days. This gave me confidence & I was inspired & motivated.
The main thing to me was my relationship, albiet, I took into account that I may not attract the person I had my heart set on, so I stayed open to the fact that so long as I aligned myself with the “truth” and Secreted the “right person for me”, then I’d be happy with that as well. Also, you have to remember that when Secreting relationships, it’s a completely different vibration & energy, so you have to constantly Secret & shape the ways it will work for you.
Also, people who Secret things which seem way too out of reach for them, should start by Secreting the way in which they will attain their goals. I heard of one woman complaining she Secreted her “dream car” & “a dream home in Italy”, then she lost her job & lost all hope. Maybe she lost her job because the universe was guiding her to a new job which paid better so she could afford the car, or maybe it was her opportunity to move to Italy. Also, she used the word “dream” in front of each goal. The mind will translate “dream car” into precisely that, a dream.
Also, never Secret using the word “you”, instead use “me” and “my” and “I.” It’s tricky stuff but through trial & error I am still perfecting it and am now moving onto other things which I will soon have, do and enjoy. Hope this helps. Happy holidays. Janet
Comment by Janet G — December 24, 2007 @ 5:57 pm
I viewed what little that I saw on youtube about The Secret, as just greed, nothing in regards to creating a nice enviroment for others. This might be represented as something perhaps as evil, self indulgent.
What sells Best?
What really seemed strange is the ongoing suggestion, as in quantom physics that we are creating our own reality, therefore you can wish and dream up your own version of the “things” that you would like to have “appear” in your own world like some Sci- Fi.
I would happily accept this if there was some proof, even though from what we know as of today that we can be broken down to energy
but that will change and they should not be creating this and marketing it to the general public without some source of confirmation.
Boaderline Cult Makings
Comment by april — December 30, 2007 @ 6:51 pm
oh yah the Visionary Dude in the movie contradicted himself on a CTV interview quoting that “thing such as a red car do not just appear as suggested”
Comment by april — December 30, 2007 @ 6:55 pm
Hi all,
I was diagnosed with Major Deppressive Illness 3 years ago and have gone through some of the hardest battles I’ve ever faced. Apparently I’ve brought it all upon myself eh? Nothing medical about it by any chance?
Let me just say that I watched the Secret dvd and it truly scared the absolute crap out of me. I was left thinking I was gonna die just because I thought I could, then what is the point of living if my life is doomed?
I don’t know how to control my thoughts, I try my hardest to be positive and sometimes I am, but trying to block out negative thoughts is an excercise in futility!
Anyone who believes in “The Secret”, I ask you to please explain how it relates to murder, rape, famine, war etc…
So 6 million jews should have been more positive?
The starving in Africa are just too negative?
People in war torn countries just need to think happier thoughts?
Children abducted and tortured just brought it upon themselves?
Everyone with terminal illness just has the wrong mindset?
What are your thoughts on that all you secret believers???
Maybe one of the worst diseases in the world is the credulity of the masses…
Comment by Jay — February 9, 2008 @ 4:31 pm
One glaring fallacy in this that the law gravity is a law but the ‘law’ of attraction is not. The law of gravity can be duplicated each and very time and can be demonstrated every time. The ‘law’ of attaction cannot be demonstrated. It should be called ‘the rule of attraction’.
Comment by Wired Guy — February 13, 2008 @ 12:26 pm
Hi. I’ve worked as a ghostwriter with a number of LOA people, including some that have been mentioned here aleady (I’m not going to mention which ones). I’m not going to claim that I know more about this than anyone else here (despite the username I’ve chosen here
. I will, however, suggest that because of my professional experience I have some insights here that are probably rare. Whether this helps you understand something or helps you challenge something you thought you understood — I don’t know. Here’s the thing that I’ve seen and experienced: the LOA People actually don’t understand LOA (and no, I’m not going to claim that *I* understand it — I don’t understand it either). The people “driving” LOA — the people that show up Oprah et al — are born marketers. They are hyper-efficent people who have, in some hazy way, relied on something…resembling LOA in order to achieve whatever success in their pre-LOA life that they’ve enjoyed. So when LOA comes around and is packaged and ready for “the masses,” these people detect a kind of familiarity: they relate to LOA. So on THAT level, they delude themselves into believing that they actually support LOA (and yes, I’ve used to word delude here, so out comes my bias and where I’m taking this…at least it took me a few sentences, right?). These people don’t support LOA. They support what most self-help is, which is (to quote a very famour mystic) “chicken soup to a dead man.” It *is* positive thinking. This doesn’t mean that it’s EVIL, but that’s really all it is. Let’s say you buy a blue car — a blue…I don’t know, a blue pick-up truck (Billy Bob that you are). All of a sudden, you start noticing all of the blue pick-up trucks around you. Where did they come from? Are you some part of some cosmic blue pick-up truck conspiracy? Are all of your blue pic-up truck owners on some ‘frequency’ that compelled you to buy a blue pick-up truck? Uhhh yeah, maybe. But “it’s more likely” that you just started noticing blue pick-up trucks because you have one. Your attention became ‘aware’ of blue pick-up trucks. (And the same thing will happen when you get your red pick-up truck, and so on). LOA — in the superficial way that it is promoted by these people — about this: paying attention to stuff; and in this case, paying attention to things that matter to an individual. And THAT — right there — is the problem. Because LOA is utterly divorced from ethics. This is the ridiculous ‘short-cut’ that The Secret et al takes when they talk about this stuff; they say that if your desire isn’t aligned with the ‘whole’ (and hence, positive and good and virtuous) then it won’t happen. Uhhhh EXCUSE ME? Have you people read a newspaper in the last…HUNDRED YEARS? Bad things happen — and many of those bad things are just as fitting for that “vision, await, achieve” or whatever model you want to use/words you want to use. That’s the problem — and that’s the real ‘scam’ here. LOA as it has been packaged here is not in itself ethical. It is just paying attention to something — your blue pick-up truck. So what? Here’s what: the ‘thing’ that this superficial, very, very, very American ‘version’ of LOA is telling people to focus on is, naturally: MONEY. They pretend and try soooooooo hard to avoid facing this reality, but it’s not just ‘the elephant in the room’ — there IS no room, it’s just full of elephants, and nobody is admitting that they’re there. LOA is teaching people to focus on money; specifically, how to make MORE money. Again: so what? Again, here’s what: the ‘easiest’ way to make money these days is through Internet Marketing. And so basically you have an army of Amway types doling out LOA — though not in a “pyramid,” and hence not illegal; and THAT is the real “new” thing about this that separated it from Amway or MLM stuff: people are screwing themselves. How can that be illegal? It’s immoral and unethical, but not illegal. So that’s what this is: selling and re-selling LOA to as many people as you can. That’s all this is about. You go to an LOA seminar or get some CD or whatever, and you start thinking: okay, how do I use this to make money? And then (surprise) the LOA people tell you: sell LOA to others! It’s like Christianity, without the messy ‘Christ’ part in the way (so no wars needed). And that’s basically what it is. But MUCH LIKE AMWAY, this is a train that *has* to keep moving. It’s a bunch of balls that are juggling in the air — that’s why these LOA types fly all over the world and scream and rant and BEG you to buy into LOA. Because everytime you do, they get a piece of the action. They get paid. Yes, they can rationalize it (“I’m helping others! That’s the point of work, right?”), but if you look straight at these people, one thing becomes utterly clear: they are very hyper, they are NOT peaceful, and they are obsessed with getting your money. They’re on the train — and the train has to keep moving…because there are OTHERS who would like to take the place of the LOA Talking Heads, and so it’s important to keep ensuring that territory is protected…and that means more products, more branding, more marketing, more seminars, more more more more. Is LOA bullshit? Don’t ask me – and DON’T ask the people who are trying to sell it to you. They don’t know. They’ve found something to sell, and it’s aligned with what people these days want to buy (because promising people that they’ll be happy after buying a blue pick-up truck isn’t enough…now they need some metaphysical masturbation as well). And don’t think that LOA is in itself ethical just because the LOA people *themselves* tell you. Just LOOK at what these people have to do in order to “stay on top” of the LOA pyramid. Is this healthy? You decide. Why would you buy downers from a dealer who can’t stop shaking? You do it because LOA sells hope and future, and that’s the core ingredient you need to screw someone: hope. LOA, as its packaged now, sells hope and future. And there will probably always be enough idiots who want to buy it and then re-sell it to other idiots. Remember folks: if you want to go into this LOA stuff, go ALL the way — and identify the OTHER laws of the universe that must be in effect if LOA is also going to be your new mantra. Laws like the law of gravity (watch how these LOA people start falling down…), the law of cause and effect (see last bracket)…and on. I don’t have a lot of sympathy for people who drop thousands of dollars on LOA stuff and then wonder why their life isn’t 10 times better. You got what you paid for: hope and future.
Comment by Insider — February 17, 2008 @ 4:25 pm
Agree with #94, but go further and say that the ‘law of attraction’ should actually be called “the good practice of positive thinking”.
I can’t believe Oprah (supposedly) got duped into pushing this on her viewers.
Why would you create an entire product around the simple idea of “positive thinking”? (oh yeah…………..to make money).
I’ve seen actual results from “the good practice of positive thinking”:
I play basketball, and when I shoot the ball, I started visualizing the ball going through the net during the moment of release. I also echo the phase “In”, to myself at the same time. This forces me to let go of any doubt in my head, and instills a calming confidence.
I’ve managed to increase my shooting percentage by about double. From the free-throw line I make in about 8 out of 10, whereas before I averaged around 5 out of 10.
My thoughts on this are that, my lack of confidence (doubt) actually causes my brain to screw up, and I miss the shot. The positive thinking stops my brain from getting in my way, and my full potential is realized.
I’ve also noticed the same thing in my volleyball game when jump-serving and spiking. I visualize the ball going where I want it to,and I repeat the phrase “in” for the serve and “kill” for the spike. I’ve increased my % on this as well.
In summary, I feel that positive thinking simply blocks you from having doubt (which somehow affects your subliminal mind from getting in the way), and allows you to realize your full potential.
This idea can apply to:
- socializing with the opposite sex
- sports
- speeches
- sex
- driving
- finding your MP3 player in your gym bag (without looking)
- dancing
just my opinion.
Comment by Joseph Triplett — February 18, 2008 @ 2:49 pm
I don’t know where the world began or where it will end and what creates matter, existance or time.
I really don’t know anything in regards to life except for the fact that everyday I wake up, live, breath, eat, and exist as best as I can.
I do know that I have a certain amount of control over my life based upon the knowledge gained from my nuclear family and sociological influences.
When I see on the news ‘over dose’ I think hmmm, people die from taking drugs. Perhaps taking drugs is non sensical and I should not do this. I have made this decision and because of it I am not a drug addict.
I agree that my life is better than that of a drug addict. Why? Not because I wished for a better life by visualizing it and believing it but because I made a rational conscious decision based upon what I was taught and what I have absorbed through osmosis of my surrounding, media, and life’s trial’s and error.
Those who are successful, have a very good understanding of their position in life. They have good rational and make good desicions.
This is why they are successful. Sure the probably did have dreams at some point. Sure they probably were able to recognize and act upon resources that came their way. Sure they may appear as though they have a gift or a secret but in the end I think it just comes down to one thing.
Common Sense. It’s no secret.
Comment by NeverMind — February 18, 2008 @ 3:34 pm
Blimey, there are some comments here alright.
Before the ‘Secret’, and the book ‘The Law Of Attraction’ came along, I read the book by Joe karbo, ‘The Lazy Man’s way to Riches’. in there he talked about what he called ‘Dynapsych’ where you basically hypnotise yourself into becoming wealthy or whatever else you wanted.
I was at that stage in my life where I would investigate these claims with vigour and duly followed his instruction.
Within just a few months I had a moment of ‘epiphany’. My confidence levels went sky high, as did my energy levels. I could convince anyone to agree with everything I said to the point that they were handing me money just on my own faith in myself. With no receipts and no contracts of any kind. Just pure faith in ME and what i was saying.
My first day I had cash and cheques to the value of £8,000- ready to place into my bank the next morning.
Did this frighten me?
Yes, it scared the life out of me that I’d developed this ‘Power’ over people. Some i’d never met before.
Did they get their money back?
Yes they did, even though they all point-blank refused at first. I then had to use those new-found powers to convince them to do so.
Have I ever repeated the experiment?
Most certainly NOT. The power was too hot for me to handle, and I suspect it would be too much for most people. This is why ‘The Secret’ and formula’s like it are very dangerous in the wrong hands. But pleeeeease don’t think it doesn’t work.
I have witnesses that can verify that it does.
Even though I really think the whole ‘Secret’ phenomenon is NOT altruistically based. (As it should be).
Good luck all.
Pete.
Comment by PeteMoring — February 27, 2008 @ 6:07 pm
I’ve seen the Secret and read up on the Law of Attraction (LOA) which is easy enough to do, thanks to the Internet!
It seems to me that this is another twist on beliefs and belief systems, nothing more and nothing less. Orthodox religions have disaffected many, yet some people need to believe in something, so some clever folks develop something to believe in. We had EST, then Insight, now this.
Is it a scam? Well, if you by the DVD, you do get what you pay for, a DVD filled with a rather high quality presentation with somewhat questionable theories. If you pay for a seminar, is it a scam? Well, you do get the entertainment and the messages, so they do deliver. But the quality is the question. Can LOA help people accomplish their goals?
If I believe something will happen, that doesn’t mean it will happen. I used to believe in the Tooth Fairy — turns out it was a lie my parents told me. It’s never a good idea to lie, especially to children.
If I believe something will happen and I work to make it happen… it MAY happen. Life is filled with variables (which is why dice don’t come up the same way twice). If it does happen, was it because I believed? Was it because I worked at it? Was it because I believed enough to do the work, and circumstances were in the right place to help me out?
No one knows the answer and no one should say they do.
Does LOA work? Some people swear by it, others are horrified by it. There is a psychological principle where by people make a script and then fit the facts into the script. Religion has been doing this for years (a flood, must be an angry god). I think this works the same way.
What IS disturbing is the number of MLM scams (and these ARE scams) that one finds on LOA and The Secret message boards.
They say “Like attracts like”
Makes me wonder.
Comment by Justin — March 6, 2008 @ 1:11 pm
Let’s see if I got this right. You don’t like the secret and you don’t want me to like it. You want me to believe what you believe. Either that, or in some way, you are planning to ride the coattails of the secret to make yourself some money.
Someone once said: “A man convinced against his will, is of the same opinion still.”
It looks to me like Rhonda used the secret to make the secret and it worked for her.
Comment by Al H. — March 27, 2008 @ 11:56 pm
Let’s all have happy thoughts and increase the human life span by, say…300 years? Or, let’s wish away cancer and other diseases.
The very act of wishing and focusing on what you need is a waste of time; we’re all born with needs and desires. You’re not meant to spend your life focusing on what you are already born with.
A better use of your time, albeit also futile, is to seek “meaning” and not indulge in wishful thinking.
Qoheleth states,”I saw all the deeds that are done under the sun; and see, all is vanity and a chasing after wind”.
You’re on this earth for a limited amount of time and you get one shot at existence – live it and don’t look down at your feet.
Comment by Tae Nui — March 30, 2008 @ 8:51 pm
but all you guys saying that this book is a positive thing you are missing one point here. By following the rules of the secret, you expect that good things will happen if you think positively, but thats just it. It doesn’t mention anything about working hard for what you want. Having a positive mindset is the first thing that u need to succeed, but after that you have to put those thoughts in to a concrete form and work hard to make them come true. Alot of people that read the secret misunderstand this concept, and think that just by thinking positively things automatically get better but thats certainly not the case
Comment by paolo — April 6, 2008 @ 1:15 pm
The law of attraction is made complicated in order to make it marketable.
It’s so simple when you realise that from a physical perspective you can’t manifest anything and that the true meaning is lost when people try to use it merely for material gain.
Comment by Rick Lennie — April 11, 2008 @ 6:38 pm
I enjoyed watching the video “the Secret”. I have been a christian since I was 11 years old. I excercise my faith and listen to the small voice called god , the holy spirit or Jesus. it has worked for me in keeping the inner peace and joy. I have read much of the bible but not the whole thing. When watching the Secret I sensed much of the philosophy co relates to christian Faith practice. however, christians trust in god to provide for their needs…have you considered that the law of attraction and asking god for thingsz is the same? Jesus told people in the bible that their Faith healed them. its interesting to see the familiarity with the secrets LOA principle and the healing stories in the New testament. the only part that disturbs me is the Secret website says to love money and jesus said the love of money is the root of all evil. I believe the law of attraction is real to an extent. I firmly believe in the fundamental of surrendering your all to god and trusting in him for direction and provision. I am still struggling with knowing what direction I should take to fulfill my purpose in the grand world we live in. I know for sure that in the universe or in another dimension their is a creator. I believe the creator is so intelligent he can manage to hear our thoughts if we focus towards that existance while trusting and believing we are heard. the hard part is believing we are deserving of what we ask for. we are all wretched, greedy, decietful, arogant, selfrighteous and ect. until we let go of the desires to fulfill our selfish dreams and surrender to the universe or god with gratitude that we were selected or created to live. i havent had the pleasure to read the wisdom of Bhudda or any other great minds from the ancient periods but I have studied the teachings of jesus and I believe he has the ingredients for world peace. Reward Evil with good, Love your enemies, do unto others as you would have them do unto you ect….my favortie is Jesus last commandment “love one another”. doesnt this sound like jesus new the Secret? I believe happiness is peace.
Comment by James — May 17, 2008 @ 9:45 pm
Look. It doesn’t matter if you are a good person or a bad person. What happens just happens. Otherwise, bad people would die in their tracks and good people would never get sick or die.
Hard work is fine, but its no replacement for good luck. Of course there is no such thing as good luck, its just that something good happened and people want to make something more out of it.
The real secret? The U.S. legal system is a scam. The book and video this blog is about is a scam. Deciding to feel good no matter what isn’t a scam. Its just that when you feel good everything “seems” better.
With a choice between busting my butt and time away from my family or having a ton of cash given to me. I’ll take the gift.
In God We Trust. All others pay cash.
-Brandon
Comment by brandon — June 3, 2008 @ 6:39 pm
Why is it that all these things happen to appear pushed in the media, and pushed on TV by puppets? You do the math, and you will have the REAL secret as to what is really behind this curtain. Any so-called wealth behind all this is taken in by all the people who push this crap, at all levels, all these “how to” programs, they abound in every field. Anyone stupid enough to listen to any media or television puppet and would then run out and by this crap deserves to be taken and ripped off.
Comment by Tony — June 11, 2008 @ 8:13 am
This facination about the secret is pathetic. Thoughts are powerful, but actions get you further than racing thoughts. The secret is simply a big dramatic documentary/book that describes a psychological term known as the “self-fulfilling prophecy”. I’ve stressed and worried and thought negatively about things that were mostly in my control and they have turned out in my favor. So if the secret really did in fact work, those things would have no turn out so well. But who the fuck cares.
Comment by claire b. — June 23, 2008 @ 9:48 pm
the secret takes an overly analitical approach to thinking. As if thinking isn’t already complicated enough. The secret is the same as the self-fulfilling prophecy. This is a term in psychology. Save your money when thinking about purchasing this. Your money may be better spent on a massage or something.
Comment by claire b. — June 23, 2008 @ 9:52 pm
I believe that if you think positive and focus on what you really want in life you will get it. I have always been pessimistic and miserable due to childhood problems. I read The Secret and I loved the book. In a way it is a bit far-fetched but it helped me to change my whole perspective on life. Many people need this kind of stuff to help them look at life differently. The more miserable you feel the more you attract of it. Since then I try as hard as possible to keep negative thoughts out of my mind(not easy) but to tell you the truth, things are changing for the better. Believe in God and his mightiness and be grateful for what you have in life and most of all love one another and help someone in despair whenever possible.
Comment by Johanna — July 27, 2008 @ 9:53 am
Just read through all 109 comments! whew! And the winner is…#95. High 5′s to a great comment. Couldn’t agree more.
Comment by Read 95again — August 5, 2008 @ 3:27 pm
You’ve all proved the power of attraction. How did you find this site–by accident? Perhaps. By predestination? Maybe. By search? Usually. Luck? Who knows? But know this: you all found it, added to it, let out some emotion, got a bit miffed, suggested some truth, claimed Satan is involved, argued that some of the others don’t know Jesus or God or Krishna or Buddha. Lots of self righteousness, self pity, self awareness. Some religion, some philosophy, lots of garbage (judgment call, I know…). Still, the entire effort has been very entertaining. I seek to attract that sort of site into my life. Thanks to all of you for playing your roles. I’ve seen the light. It’s very attractive!
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The Secret is to put your credit card away and run like hell. I used to work with one Robert Scheinfeld and he is a load of crap. Do as I say and don’t ask questions. Oh & I will unload on you at the top of my lungs in front of others at any given time. What a poor leader this crock is. You fools keep feeding his MLM crap. Bad enought he will inherit his money from his grandfather, this is just a game to him. Go in the office, shut the door, shuffle the cards and see what happens. He is a master manipulator. He has burned so many vendors I can’t even begin to tell you. If it looks too good to be true, IT IS!
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Medical Assembler
$4000 debt
Kept 1 job for 3.5 years
Succeeding in school
Medical benefits and 401k
180lbs
Full time job
After Secret:
Janitor
$9000 debt
7 jobs in six months
No school
No benefits
200lbs
Part time job
I’m not going to define this, but I think Napoleon Hill’s book would give better results.
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Follow your bliss. The power within you is greater than the power in the whole world
Comment by Ali — September 13, 2008 @ 10:01 am
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Comment by goober — October 8, 2008 @ 3:19 am
look, if you want to get past all the confusion just read classics like The Bible, Ernest Holmes, John Randolph Price, Henry Thomas Hamblin, Ralph Waldo Trine, Thomas Troward, William Walter Atkinson, Prentice Mulford, Florence Scovel Shinn, and Genevieve Behrend. Try more modern writers like Louise Hay, James Ray, Bob Doyle, Bob Proctor. (that’s just the tip of the iceberg). This knowledge goes back thousands of years. ‘The secret’ is nothing new, it was just superb marketing. I have no judgements about their motivations, however I’m sure it involved money, but so what? Isn’t everyone entitled to a good living? There are HEAPS more books and info out there if you want it. It explains this in a scientific way that can’t be denied. Quantum physics is the new science. Give it 10-20 years and you’ll be blown away by what is discovered.
Comment by charlie — October 8, 2008 @ 3:45 am
Great comments everyone. It’s great to read all the differing opinions. I especially like comment 68 and 74. Make sense.
Well, I’m off to do the washing.
Cherio
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I have not studied the Law of Attraction in great detail, so I do not proclaim to be an expert on it. But I do echo a concern that others have voiced which is basically the obvious: If positive thinking is required to find what you are looking for (namely success or $)than you would never see pessimistic cynical people as successful. However there are many successful or famous people throughout history that were pessimistic. To name a few: Mark Twain, Henry Thoreau, W.C. Fields and Groucho Marx. What about Woody Allen? There are so many more. You know that optimism is an important ingredient for success in many things like Sales or Sports. But this L.O.A. is b.s. because there are so many other factors in life that make a person successful or rich. Its way too overly simplistic and it is definitely a scam. Developing a positive attitutde is important, but opening your eyes is just as important. “If the ship is sinking, and you close your eyes, its still going to sink”.
Comment by A.M. — November 22, 2008 @ 7:12 pm
It’s a marketing scam. That’s all. Send your money to me and I will tell you that you should think positive and work hard and be a good person and good things will happen to you. Really. I promise. C’mon, why don’t you believe me? oh… because it’s BS, just like the Secret. However, these guys are raking in the money and the people parting with it for the Secret obviously don’t deserve the money anyway, so might as well go to some smart people who stole, um earned it. Hope they pump it back into the economy when then buy new houses, cars, watches, etc… the Secret… ha. it’s no secret. BS!
Comment by Dexter — November 30, 2008 @ 10:34 pm
I think ONE thing that is missing in the secret and the very OLD concept of LOA is that negative trauma is connected to cycles, growth and learning. We REQUIRE good and bad to learn. The quantum physics guys were tricked into being part of this marketing scheme called “the secret” but there is some truth to be learned from what quantum mechanics has taught us, in the secret the lie is that life is supposed to be you getting everything you think you want and need. The truth is if a select few live in mansions with all the money we are contributing to those that have little. We need to learn to feel & see what “Negative Vibrations” Teach us.
-Nathan- soulfire_recordings@yahoo.com
Comment by lightbear — December 31, 2008 @ 3:22 am
As a student of sociology and psychology I have so many valid arguments to make against the claims of “the secretâ€, the unscientific basis of it not being the least of them. But I’ll present my opinion in terms of numbers, since it is a universally understood language. Now, since the print version of the Secret has been released, millions of have flocked to stores in order to purchase it. Statistically speaking, if millions of people around the world now know the secret, there should be a surge in income levels and decreased mortality among other things. Sadly, neither has occured. Societies are developing for better or for worse, independently from the laws of attraction. Obviously then, there are so many other variables (which are scientically based) which can actaully explain why the world is the way it is. Long live rational thought and reason aka Richard Dawkins lol.
Comment by jimmy — January 17, 2009 @ 7:35 pm
Heres why this doesn’t work for millions of people. They put down the book the ask for somethign. Refuse to believe it, because they dont feel they deserve it. How can you believe that you will get a porche if in your heart your self esteem is so low that deep inside you dont think you deserve it. So they ask for a mercedes, obviously dont get it, and get involoved in your rational world. But what if you ask for a brand new Porche (The truth is nobody wants a porche, they just want the self esteem that the porch will result in). We are raised in a world to be good little working bees always asking for permission, go to class, if you want to pee put up your hand, so we live a life in which we feel we have to earn everything, and if you cant earn it you dont desrve it. Isn’t that amazing. But what if you realize that its not the porche that matters but the self esteem.
When you quit smoking, your brain rewires itself out of the nicotine addiction. Neurons that wire together fire together (SCIENTIFIC FACT). Neurons that no longer fire together stop wiring together. So the nicotine addiction stops and a few months later you no longer want a smoke after your meal. So couldnt it be also true that you may rewire your brain however you like. So what if you could rewire your brain to acheive a great task, or to be a killer with the ladies, or to be rich, or even easier to have great self esteem and feel good all the time. And couldn’t you rewire brain to focus on what you want, and getting what you want, and realligning every ounce of energy and space it has to getting what you want out of Life? Sure it takes time like the nicotine addiction but it does happen. And once the brain is rewired in this fashion it begins to change your way of thinking. New focus builds up greater then anything you had done previously and all of a sudden you go after a new oppurtunity and voila a new porche. Its not a secret. Its just a Owners Manual that was lost by our ancient mothers and fathers. So sure you cant ask for a porche but if you rewire brain, and give it time, i give you word you will get it. Your brain is the most powerful element in the universe. We can create computers that can process Millions of bits in a second, still cant match our brain.
A great man, Named Winston Churchhill onces said ” Men often stumble over the truth, but pick themselves up as if nothing has occured.” Th
Comment by Zeeshan Merchant — January 24, 2009 @ 7:24 pm
I think the whole idea of ‘the secret’ is indirectly related to the astromonical number of home foreclosures today. Think back several years ago about people who had this dream of owning a certain home, but did not make enough money to purchase this particular home. After being exposed to ‘the secret’ either by book or movie, these people now have their heads filled with this BS, and then try to turn that dream of owning their “dream home” into reality. These people tried hard to do what it took to get that home and really beleive that they will get it. And it just so happened that at this time that the subprime loans, arms, and other fancy loans were being popularized. This gave these people with the dream of owning a home a false sense of hope and ‘the secret’ just made things worse by really encouraging these types of people to acheive/get whatever you want just by thinking or imagining it. Then these people took action and bought these homes under these ridiculous stipulations, i.e., no money down, interest-only, and so on. This fueled the fire by making these people think they were living ‘the secret’ and their dreams were coming true because they “ask, beleive, receive”.
Now fastforward several years later to today. These same people had their home forclosed because of this silly idea of ‘the secret’ had given them that false sense of hope and set them up for failure, disaster, and without a home now.
Comment by J.B. McDunham — February 2, 2009 @ 8:31 pm
The Law of Attraction works. Boy, it does. But the problem is the packaging and marketing of “The Secret”.
Once you learn it’s all about REALLY WANTING SOMETHING, once you learn that it has to do with auto suggestion, the subconscious and an optimistic approach, once you learn that you can indeed achieve those dreams you were afraid of, you will know it works.
I’ve read tons of “crap” by Joe Vitale, Jerry and Esther Hicks, and the best one, Napoleon Hill. After reading all that material, is when I found out that The Secret was just a marketing scheme. I fell for it at first. They don’t tell you exactly what to do. Visualization is no good if you have counter intentions. Wanting something is useless if you don’t really want it. It’s about dreaming and knowing that if you put your mind on it long enough, you will move the people, and get the jobs that will help you achieve that goal.
Before reading that stupid book I was a drug addict, alcoholic, my business was doing horrible, and had a bunch of psychological issues. 2 years later I’ve already traveled around the world, got me a laptop, brushed off 40 pounds and got into a relationship that helped me grow a lot.
Of course it doesn’t work with people who are not willing to put the effort that a world can be a better place through their own eyes. The skepticals who love being Debbie Downers and Bob Bummers.
Hard work won’t get you ANYWHERE. That is the main principle that Napoleon Hill said. But Inspired work, something that you actually enjoy doing and are willing to stake your life on it, will get you wherever you want to go.
Comment by Ed — February 12, 2009 @ 12:57 am
The principle behind the Secret does not appear to be, at least in my opinion, a good luck charm, or magic bullet, but instead it appears to be a way to program your mind for the success you will haver to WORK for. I play music professionally (in addition to owning part of a business), and I have to practice hard to overcome rough spots in my playing, and vocal parts, yet I do so with an image in my mind of perfecting the problems. I eventually get there, though I’m not saying that it’s 100% perfect. Nothing in finite life is 100% perfect, but It’s just closer to that standard of perfection than it was before I started practicing. I think Proverbs 23:6-7 says it best……..”Do not eat the bread of a selfish man,Or desire his delicacies; For as he thinks within himself, so he is.He says to you, “Eat and drink! But (C)his heart is not with you. ” Negative thinking people are rarely very successful because they create negative energy that drains them, and others, of the mindset it takes to really be successful, though NOT without work.
Comment by Dave Russell — February 15, 2009 @ 7:57 pm
Ok, I keep seeing people saying that this movie claims to let you have whatever you want without having to work for it. No where in the movie does it say you don’t have to work for what you want. All the secret states is that you find out what you want, then you believe you can obtain it, and then you act on the opportunities to direct you down the path to your goal. By acting on the opportunities that arise you WORK towards your goal!
I hate to say it, but “you are what you think” is very true whether you like it or not. It’s called self esteem! It’s called believing in yourself. And you claim that’s a scam? Having self esteem is a scam? uh ok…
Think about it. If you hate yourself, you make yourself feel more miserable, and it then reflects your feelings to the world around you. Most people don’t like to be around people that whine and groan about all their problems in the world. However, if you think well of yourself, and love yourself, and take care of yourself, it reflects and people notice this. People like being around people who are at ease with themselves. They enjoy people who are stable and functional.
I mean do you think a healthy relationship involves two people who don’t even love themselves? Or would you say a healthy relationship involves people who love themselves as well as each other?
If you think that sounds like a scam than I think you’re more of a crack pot then the people in the video. I mean, they aren’t trying to make you buy anything aside from maybe their DVD, but other than that they don’t force you to do anything.
I think therefore I am.
One must love thyself before they can share their love with others.
Comment by Ed — March 3, 2009 @ 1:58 am
I am curious to know why you are just dismissing everything as BS when you haven’t put a SINGLE DROP OF STUDY into it. It didn’t take me 10 seconds to find “metaphysics” on Wikipedia.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metaphysician
The Secret has worked for me, countless times.
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You people crack me up. The Secret is simple and you people make it so hard. You almost make hineys out of yourselves by NOT believing in these principles or calling it “satanic”. Only someone who has a bit missing upstairs are going to think you can attract lottery winnings by using these principles. Intelligence, people, please. Its so simple. When we are grateful for what we have and are positive about things, we WILL attract positivity. Being negative only attracts negative. When we truly believe that we can have something, when we think about it every day and recognize that NOT having it is not an option, then we will, almost subconciously, begin to work for it. Sure, alot of this is pure common sense, but many people are so down and out that they need others to drill these principles into them. I know I did. I’m not worried about winning the lottery, but I’m sure, without a doubt, that there is a trip to Europe in my future. I know, without a doubt that the financial mess we are in now is working itself out(with hard work on our parts and plenty of prayers) and one day we WILL be financially independent. Its all about being grateful, being giving, hard work, etc. Simple stuff people. Get rid of your negative ‘tude and give it a shot. I guarantee you it will work.
Comment by Kristine — April 21, 2009 @ 7:09 pm
This is for those of you who are very negetive.
Did you know that the highest form of ignorance is rejecting or accepting something you know nothing about?
Why do you post a comment? Isn’t because you want to share your opinion with the people who read your comments? Well, I read your comments and I respect them because they are your opinion! But remember there is no such thing as “ONE SIZE FITS ALL” just because you don’t like the idea of the “secret”, or it didn’t work for you…that does not give you the reason to disrespect the people involved in this…it is your right to believe or not to believe, accept or reject… but always remeber the state of your life is nothing more than a reflection of your state of mind.
Comment by Aty Farid — May 1, 2009 @ 4:01 pm
wow this sounds cool,so i can become presedent of the united states even though i am irish,i can fly even though i have no wings,i can go to jupiter even though its not possible,i can grow a pair of tits even though i am a man,get real chummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmps
Comment by jimmybobjunior — May 18, 2009 @ 9:16 pm
only americans could think of this and believe in this scam. that’s why you’re americans
Comment by sffs — May 22, 2009 @ 1:53 pm
I must say that living with my mother I have always been exposed to self-help books and obviously my mother was bound to find the secret. She was over the moon when this book came out as she claimed that a new human awakening was about to take place and that she was going to be a millionaire with the practice of the ‘secret’. To be honest I took on the theories and beliefs and shared them with my room mates who began cutting up pictures of houses and cars and sticking them up on the wall.
Weeks later, almost as a balancing force of karma our lifes began sinking into the opposite of what we wished. Sudendly I had droped out of school, my room mate was unemployed, the fridge was empty and we went from living a comfortable life to being evicted from our appartment after months of struggle.
We felt like total victims of a bad omen. The secret kept saying it begins with asking, you don’t have to know how, the way will reveal it self. I guess desperation can be viewed as a revelation.
I don’t discredit the ‘secret’ but I am surely against the way it was marketed – done with the intent to make them rich and not to empower people.
Now, folks like Bob Proctor and Dr. Demartini pound in fortunes feeding off people’s need to have some sort of life answers. Surely before they were popular, numerous life coaches existed and the same theories were thought, I don’t know why the ‘secret’ took the title – I would say mainly because of good marketing and the hype.
Lastly, if anyone wants to improve their life, yes it begins with the changing our thoughts but mostly our beliefs, values, the way we speak and the action we take in life. The only ones making cash out this ‘new era’ thinking is all the coaches and writers who keep publishing books around the same ish with different titles. I would say know your self, persevere, have discipline and take action, don’t think that buying a book a going to a seminar is going to change your life. it is just sad that so many of us don’t mention our Gods and don’t back our religions as I believe that amongst the mist the devil is trying to make us believe that we are gods our selves.
Comment by Vince — June 19, 2009 @ 9:31 am
I have just a small comment to make to all of this. If you believe it and it feels good/right to you, then fly with it and don’t let anyone tell you differently. Don’t be persuaded, don’t let differing opinions make you feel as if maybe it really is too good to be true, go out there and manifest YOUR destiny. Because it is YOUR destiny. No one else can write your story.
On the flipside, if this doesn’t feel right to you and you don’t believe in it, then let it go. If it doesn’t feel good to you then there is a reason for that and no one has a right to try and convince you other wise. This is your life and you should live it how you see fit.
If anyone wants to banter more about this please let me know, I’m very interested in others opinions.
Jessica
Risingfromashes16@yahoo.com
P.S. If you do write me put “secret” in the subjectline so I won’t delete your email. Thanks.
Comment by Jessica — July 16, 2009 @ 5:29 pm
In my opinion, the video and the book called “The secret” is over exaggerated.
Comment by Renz — July 31, 2009 @ 6:37 am
I did intense study of the Law of Attraction for years, before and after “The Secret” came out. Like a lot of others, I bought into it hook, line and sinker. After all, it had reached the mainstream, right? It was on Oprah and all …
I of all people should have known what a crock it all was: 20+ years of studying and putting into practice all this and nothing, positively nothing, happens in my favor. And a lot against me. Half a lifetime of hard work resulted in … nothing to show for it. I finally leave my modest life behind in 2000 to go for a lifelong dream, using those so-called age-old principles, along with the work needed … nothing but one disaster after another.
I was going to write about my almost 10-year odyssey, but I don’t have the happy ending yet so no one would be inspired by it anyway.
Anyway what I’m trying to say is, it indeed is a bunch of crap and always has been. The only people really benefiting from it are the marketers.
Last summer, after years of struggle in survival mode, I thought I’d finally found an opportunity for a job that would not only support me decently but enable me to do some of the things I’d long dreamed of. It was modest, it wasn’t a top exec post or anything, just a job that would have immediately opened wonderful doors.
Having been in the throes of “The Secret” during that time, I thought it was serendipity. “This was meant to be!” Anyway, I went for it with gusto, doing the best resume I knew how, calling after decent intervals to check on them (unfortunately, I had no personal contacts into the place), even getting my post-interview thank-you note ready …
And all that time I felt deep in my bones that I ALREADY HAD IT! Not that I wanted it, but that it was already in my life. This is exactly what “The Secret” teaches you to do.
I didn’t even get an initial interview, let alone the job.
“The Secret” had totally let me down. That job fit me like a glove, after a lifetime of shit jobs that did not. I had believed and it didn’t come, or even something close.
A few months before that, I tried to enter Bob Proctor’s “intensive” personal coaching program that promised results if we studied the things “The Secret” left out … I called his company’s number and the woman asked me some questions about myself in order to “qualify.” The last such question was, “Are you in a financial position to take advantage of this opportunity?” A “no” answer disqualified you, obviously. The tuition: some $4,000.
Then she started counseling me about the necessity for “leveraging” my credit cards because I was going to learn how to “know with certainty” that I was going to be receiving much, much more back.
I’m ashamed now that I fell for any of it, and dearly hope those who were desperate enough to “leverage” their credit for this nonsense got out of it ok. And if anyone actually did profit from it … chance.
That’s how life works. Chance and luck. Hard work? It’s needed, mostly. But it’s not the only ingredient. It never was. Chance and luck and opportunity.
That’s what I’ve learned from 35 years of hard work and striving … because none of the other stuff ever came my way.
Comment by Ana — August 11, 2009 @ 4:23 am
There’s one thing missing from the formula stated in The Secret.
If you leave anything out of the TRUTH or add anything to the TRUTH, it no longer remains the TRUTH.
Besides the Truth, what remains but FALSEHOOD?
The Secret is a set up, created by liars for monetary gain.
Liars waste two important things in our life. Our time and energy.
It’s a shame that millions of people have been misled by The Secret.
The Secret takes a few true principles and mixes it with some untruth to make a pleasing concoction to feed to the world.
It is hard to think that all these people in The Secret movie could lie, but they have!
The formula to get whatever you want in life is given as follows: ASK, BELIEVE and RECEIVE.
The formula left something out. Something very important.
Here’s the true formula that OUGHT TO be followed:
1. Ask
2. Believe
3. ACT
4. Receive
The Law of Attraction is NOT the most powerful law in the universe.
It’s the LAW OF CAUSE AND EFFECT.
The Law of Cause and Effect states that for every effect there must be a cause.
So if you expect a bill in the mail, it is because you have DONE something that has caused a bill to come into existence. It is not because you expect a bill that you get a bill!
Similarly, if you expect a check in the mail, it is because you DID something that caused that check to come into existence. It is not because you expect a check that you get a check!
All effects are the result of ACTIONS. Not thoughts.
And in The Secret movie we hear of a guy who talks about receiving unexpected checks in the mail.
You have Lisa Nichols saying that you have debt because you expected debt.
Lies.
And if these two people have lied, then the rest of the folks in the movie cannot be trusted either.
Especially Rhonda Byrne.
And imagine Jack Canfield being part of the group! He’s also lying. He says that he used the formula of The Secret and that it worked!
I now question everything that is found on Rhonda Bryne’s web site. Including all those testimonials. It’s very possible that most of them are fabricated!
Rajasa Robbins,
Author, The God of All Things
http://www.godofallthings.com
The only book in the world that helps people solve the mystery of death without getting into religion.
Comment by Rajasa Robbins — August 12, 2009 @ 10:20 pm
Watched the movie yesterday night, that was great fun! Honestly I’d like to believe it, only this ‘emotional guiding system’ seems really dangerous to me – emotions can be pretty cloudy at times so I am not sure about that.
Being grateful for what you already have changes your life instantly for the good and I have seen it in many very successful people. It also is one of the core principles of judaism. So as for that point I know for sure that it is ‘ancient wisdom’.
The team of Gurus earns money with that, sure. Where exactly is the problem? I mean if it makes you feel good and doesn’t harm, just decide if the feeling you get is worth the price – why would a rational individual NOT want someone else to earn something?
There is not and never will be any guarantee for you to succeed in anything. Also hard work (I know, you added chance) does not guarantee that. Any life can end by a stroke in this very second. But every shot that we don’t take is a guaranteed miss. That’s why giving everything in any given moment is worth it: you will never have to blame yourself for not trying.
If anything helps you to try more often and to try harder, naturally you are more likely to succeed. So if what you want is success, it would be idiotic not to take advantage of it. If this particular theory doesn’t motivate you but distracts you from working on your goals, just stay away from it – seems rather common sense.
All this self help stuff helps people to feel better on the way of achievment AND failure. So you get to decide if you want to feel good or bad and if it can help you in case you prefer the first.
Comment by David — August 19, 2009 @ 7:08 pm
THE SECRET IS A WAY FOR WHITE TRASH WELFARE BUMS TO THINK THEY HAVE A CHANCE IN LIFE.
Comment by Dan Brown — August 21, 2009 @ 11:36 am
For those of you that think Robert is full of shit,,,, it is the last thing from bullshit. His work can not be truly experienced by simply reading the book and intellectualizing it. It is impossible to get true value from it that way. I will agree there are aspects of new age theories that are bullshit. However Robert’s work is absolutely not about feeling good with some airry fairy fluff, it is about buckling down for the wildest ride of your life and over a long period of time experiencing a shift that is beyond words. The Busting Loose model is not about manifesting riches and mates and homes and cars. It is not about creating what you think you want, it is about undoing the bullshit that has prevented you from living and experiencing life with much much less limits and restrictions. It is not about running from the areas of your life that scare you, ex running out of money getting sick getting divorced it is not about setting goals and agendas etc. It is about diving in, facing everything that scares you, and it is about bringing into you experience new awareness into all of you experiences. It is for most and me included a long drawn out sometimes painful yet extremely joyful journey that may take and has already been years for me. It is not feel good work, it is a major housecleaning on all levels. Once the house gets cleaner and cleaner and becomes more and more free of clutter then, and only then does it begin to feel amazing.
The work will in its essence slay a well protected highly regarded and developed intellect. Thinking does not get you to where Robert points too, only a stripping away of BS and direct experiences will get you there. If taken on purely on face value it will just be another self help book, but if you feel moved to go further, you will be guided down a path and will never be or see things the same way.
It takes HUGE commitment and a do what ever it takes attitude and may take years.
Comment by Jay — September 2, 2009 @ 2:44 pm
Interesting take you have….I am guessing that you are quite a different position in life based on your beliefs? It’s interesting that Joe has different thoughts and actions and is a Multi Millionaire and you?…..mmmmm I’ll give you a hint Einstein….”Your thoughts”…..
Comment by Red — September 30, 2009 @ 10:45 pm
I WAS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT HOW COME THE SECRET DOESNT MENTION GOD AT ALL? LIKE TO ME GOD GIVES ME THINGS IN ABUNDANCE AND HE TAKES AWAY THINGS…LIKE JOEL OSTEEN SAID…..SO DOES THAT MEAN THE SECRET IS MADE BY SCIENTOLOGISTS?
Comment by lEO — October 6, 2009 @ 5:49 pm
Sad to see so many “sheeples” in the world
Comment by SteveM — October 18, 2009 @ 9:33 am
“You want to know what the real secret is? The real secret is hard work” quote Andrew
All hard work and no play, wow.
Why don’t you stop worrying about the laws and get on with enjoying life.
If you believe… all well and good and if you don’t believe its doesn’t really matter does it.
relax, life is to short
Comment by methos — October 19, 2009 @ 2:43 pm
Andrew. Thanks for sharing your opinion. Everyone is entitled to one. Although, your words sound very negative; obviously you created something extremely positive from all of the responses you have received.
I enjoyed reading several of the thoughtful, intelligent posts, despite some of those that are negative or just plain sad.
Many of the posts appear to be written by those who have done their research–which is experiential,by the way. You do have to get off the computer and practice the principles in your life-instead of doing Google searches and drawing conclusions from that.
Anyone who claims it is a scam that has not even bothered to read the book or watch the movie, really is just blowing hot air.
By the way, The Secret is completely free. Go check out the book and/or DVD at your local library. There is no need to pay thousands to some Guru. The principles in the Secret have been around for hundreds of years. The Secret is just one form or medium for you to learn the principles. If you don’t like it…go do your research and read something else.
I say….more power to those of you who want to live a cynical life. I choose to live my life differently, and my friends, family, and community appreciate that.
Comment by Sherri R. — October 26, 2009 @ 3:09 am
So, do you think he is thinking it is his fault he attracted 3 deaths at his sweat lodge? Thanks for your wisdom and just plain common sense.
Comment by been there — October 31, 2009 @ 9:43 pm
Hey Andrew,
Thanks for the posting! Great and refreshing!
I have (soon to be had) a real estate portfolio, and you know what has happened to the market. As I lose things, people keep saying “BE POSITIVE”. WTF??? Well, I suppose that a homeless in a tent can “just dream it is a castle” and, hey life is great.
It would appear that this self delusion has permeated society to a dangerous level. Chris Hodges has some very interesting comments in his book “Empire of Illusion”.
All the best,
Richard
Comment by Richard — November 1, 2009 @ 8:15 pm
Hello Andrew — just discovered your BLOG today and I have to acknowledge you for ID’ing this Ray guy right at the beginning for what he is now proven to be – a con man and snake oil salesman. He came here to Sedona and messed up and left the scene early. Now he’s selling his place in Hollywood and I guess his next step is to skip the country with whatever money he can take with him. I hope he gets arrested before he can flee. But as for the rest of you “secret” junkies, or groupies, or “devoted followers” or whatever you call yourselves… learn a little more about scams and frauds – you might live longer. And paying $10,000 for 5 days won’t get you any answers but it just might kill you.
Comment by Will Walden — November 7, 2009 @ 3:17 pm
Hi Andrew, great blog.
What my main concern is seeing so many people this easily led.
Do not pay money to find out all you really need is positive thinking and belief in yourself.
Spend your money on people who really need it-
I do think people like Esther Hicks ,should be punished for exploiting people.
They should be made to give their money to the needy.
Here’s a great read. An interview with the Hick’s/ (they were part of the “Secret”)
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/profiles/interview-the-couple-who-claim-they-can-make-you-rich-beyond-your-wildest-dreams-456087.html
Comment by Gypz — November 16, 2009 @ 6:26 am
Amy Semple McPherson, Oral Roberts, Billy Graham, Paul and Jan Crouch, Benny Hinn, and a gazillion more like them have been peddling snake oil for more than 2000 years. And their brand of snake oil sentences you to hell if you don’t buy into their hype. During the first half of the 19th century, a man by the name of Ralph Waldo Emerson (I’m sure you’ve heard the name) began writing and teaching about the power of the inner person to create what they truly wanted. He was right. You are the sum total of all of your words, thoughts, deeds, and experiences to date. If you change some of those things, beginning with the way you talk to yourself and to the world, you will change your results. It’s that simple. It takes no belief in deities or gurus. It simply takes a belief in yourself. When you are sufficiently motivated to act, you’ll act. If the Secret-y type teachers help you to act, then they have served a purpose. If they leave you thinking that gold dust fall into your lap if you just hold a good thought, they’re still right.
Everyone writing in this blog is a product of their belief systems–not necessarily their religions. What you hold in your mind on a consistent basis will invariably play itself out in your life. Guaranteed. No hocus pocus. It’s the way things work.
I leave you with the four most dangerous words in the English language: Come now, be realistic.
Comment by Richard Matthews — November 19, 2009 @ 12:37 pm
Just a note- I was on a spree where I’d go to Goodwill and buy a bunch of books and read them, Picking titles that seemed to appeal to me. After awhile, after reading a couple hundred books, the CONCEPT of ‘the secret’ was congealing in my mind. This ‘idea’ is universal, has been around for millenia, and it does indeed work. People today are too negative (see notes above), and their thoughts and bodies are too impure for the frequencies to be ‘read’ if you will, by the ‘attractors’. As soon as I even mildly tried this concept, things started happening (called synchronicities) that just were totally unexplainable. I found a wallet with $200+ in it, for starters. My brother owed me $3100 for like 7 years…one day I really concentrated on the money, THE NEXT DAY A CHECK WAS IN MY MAILBOX!! I mean, you really have to fine tune this, but, believe me, it’s not a marketing ploy. The info’s been available free for thousands of years, the secret is that nobody’s using it!
Comment by Keilah — December 5, 2009 @ 10:03 pm
some people here arguing about functionality of “the secret”. Well, it’s like who believes in it, have reasons to believe upon it, and of course it will work for the believer.
But who think it’s a scam, then let me tell you, at least esther hicks and others in “the secret” are making people feel good, and they are trying to ease the pain, arousing hope etc. i think this is a good job, and if they are trying to make money by that, then let them do it, what’s the problem?! what do you want, they should starve themselves to death to prove themselves right?come on, try to focus on things which are worthy for you, why you are focusing on internal affairs.
At least they are better then those who sell tobaco to people.
As far as my faith is concerned, i believe this works.
Comment by julian — December 6, 2009 @ 12:24 pm
Your post is right on, Andrew.
Those that are defending and rationalizing “The Secret” by saying they are just saying you should set a goal and believe in yourself, stop it. That’s not what they are saying.
They are literally saying that you can visualize checks showing up in the mail and if you believe hard enough it will happen. They mean it, literally. I’ve read this crappy book.
I received it free from a book club and thought it might contain some good psychology or something useful. Boy was I wrong. But I gave it a chance.
The book is dangerous because it preys on people who are in desperate and painful situations, whether it’s finances, health or relationships – all major pain points when they are not going well. That’s what marketers look for – pain points. There are none better to exploit than these three because they are so emotional and these are the ones “The Secret” tells you you can fix up in a jiffy if you just believe.
It makes me sick when I walk into a book store these days and see an entire section dedicated to “abundance thinking” and “manifestation.” A whole rack of colorful splashy books with feel good titles and outlandish promises. It has become quite the industry.
The funniest thing was after “The Secret” got big and obviously, it wasn’t working, all kinds of follow up products started coming out to explain why. Oh, there was a “missing secret.” Here’s the real secret. Learn the secret behind the secret. I bet they sold like hotcakes as well.
They do cover their ass though by saying you have to “take action.” Well, no kidding. If you want something done you do have to actually DO IT. However, that is downplayed. There is much made of visualizing and asking the universe for what you want.
Clarify what you want, set a goal to achieve it, make a plan, work hard until you achieve your goal. I guess that’s what they mean right? Well, that’s advice I would agree with, but that’s no secret.
And it is NOT what the book is dedicated to. 90% of it is based on wishing, believing and giving gratitude in advance. Sorry, that isn’t going to cut it in the real world.
Comment by Patrick — December 13, 2009 @ 3:55 am
One question to all the secret believers – what has the law of attraction done for you?
Nothing? Thought so. Oh I’m sure I’ll get a lot of coincidental anecdotes about finding a 20 dollar bill or something as “proof” that they are beginning to attract abundance, if only in a small way for now. But with this being a best selling scam, I mean book, you’d think this international financial crisis would have been averted by now? Shouldn’t there have been a storm of new millionaires popping up over night?
Let’s face it – everyone who bought the book bought it to find out how to get a Lamborghini and a mansion and that hasn’t happened. I guess you didn’t believe hard enough or attend enough seminars. Don’t worry, you can buy one of the follow up products such as “The Missing Secret” or “The Secret behind the Secret.” Then you’ll REALLY be on your way to abundance, LOL.
On Comment 136, the Secret certainly does say you don’t have to work for it. Maybe you missed the part about the guy who says that he just envisions checks showing up in the mail – and guess what – checks mysteriously show up in the mail! This apparently happens on a regular basis to this guy, LOL.
Jerry and Esther Hicks are another couple of cranks who exploit desperate people as the “channel” some mysterious group of beings who call themselves Abraham. They take it one step further.
Abraham claims that you don’t have to do a damn thing. They explicitly say that your only work is to feel good. That’s right. “Nothing is more important than that you feel good.” Direct quote.
They recommend using your “emotional guidance system” to tell you when you are off track. Apparently by staying in a feel-good state for a sustained period of time, your life will magically just start flowing and you’ll get everything you’ve ever dreamed of. No effort required. Apparently the time frame is 30 days of feeling good will do it.
Don’t worry if you have debts or marriage problems. Those are bad things and your emotional guidance system will tell you to turn away. Don’t focus on them and you won’t get more of it. Instead, go do something you enjoy and forget about your problems. DO this enough and your life will become one steady stream of bliss! I’m not kidding. This is literally what they preach. Any Abraham devotees, don’t even try to say that I took it out of context or don’t understand it.
I’m embarrassed to say that I bought into this bullshit when I was at a desperate point in my life last year and it sunk me further into the deepest hole I’ve ever been in. It didn’t work people. But I did feel good at certain times as I ignored my problems – until they got so big that they started destroying my life.
I admit it, I was gullible. But mostly I was in a desperate moment of weakness and very scared and alone. That’s what these charlatans prey on. It’s not that people are stupid – intelligence has nothing to do with a highly emotionally charged decision, especially when that emotion is fear. That’s what makes this such a disgusting ploy.
Luckily, I’ve seen the light and am doing something to put my life back together. Positive thinking, dreaming, planning, believing in yourself are all important. But by themselves they go nowhere. The Secret and other philosophies like it contend that these practices are the end of the road.
It is a scam. I don’t care how long it’s been around, which philosopher might have said something similar to it (even Aristotle was wrong about many things, check out his work on physics, LOL) or how many religions have similar teachings. If it’s a crock, it’s a crock. I think that’s where these new age hippies get their ideas – by taking antiquated philosophical viewpoints and discarded scientific hypotheses and turning them into gospel. Then they have a long line of precedent to refer to. Joe Masses doesn’t read that kind of literature so would never know that it was discredited long ago, but the selected references are there for him to check out and get his “confirmation.”
I could go on forever about this but I’ll leave it at that. The Secret is a SCAM.
Comment by Patrick — December 13, 2009 @ 6:49 pm
Thank you for posting the TRUTH about the SECRET. What you say about it is all truth. And that’s hard for people to hear, especially those who have been tickled and tantalized by lies. What’s really pathetic is this new agey con job has now moved into the autism community and preys upon families of children and adults with autism. Case in point: Jenny McCarthy–one of the biggest frauds ever. She is a radical new agers who embraces and pushes this new age philosophy so like the Secret and the “power of now.” If you read McCarthy’s latest bs story about her kid who isn’t autistic, but she has everyone believing he is….you will see in her latest book, “mother warriors” all the new age crap infused into her writings. At one point she even has the audacity to tell the reader that if you are angry at her for “healing” her kid…(the kid who was never autistic to begin with but had febrile seizures and subsequent developmental delays that were then mitigated and he slowly recovered)…well, then you must not want to be “alone” in your autism. And she doesn’t stop there. No, McCarthy shares that she prays to dead people, which is no surprise, since Ester Hicks, the woman behind the Secret and who is a major con artist of the new age movement, Ester Hicks has conversations with alien beings, which is where she gets her “information” and “wisdom” which she then shares with a gullible, lost, sheeple of an audience who are obviously so blinded, they don’t see the lies. The good news is Mccarthy, Hicks, Oprah, and all these other egocentric, evil freaks of nature…will be exposed for what they truly are and their lives are going down hill from there, no matter how much money or fame they have, their lives will become a living nightmare of self induced GOD karma that they’ve created by being the liars and con artists that they are…and by misleading others and creating false hope and for failing to see the truth, that would have set them free.
Comment by Veronica — December 14, 2009 @ 8:55 pm
after watching the secret i was so inspired from the speaker BOB proctor so i went to hes website and called hes office, it was the biggest mistake that i have ever done ! i got scammed for 8 K ! i think Bob proctor couching program is a big scam, i signed up for hes couching program for 8 k and was promised to be able to speak to him twice every week, i was so pushed from hes very skilled sales person( called Ian) to sign up for that program that i unfortunately out of desperation and believe did. the phone calls were the biggest scam ever, they were recorded shit that i could have watched on you tube, so basically i would call some hot line at a certain time and it was recorded motivating speech, i couldn’t ask any questions or talk to anyone bc i was calling a machine not bob proctor and when i asked for my money back bc i thought i was bs , i couldn’t get a hold of anyone then they sent me an email saying that it was non refundable. i was promised to be guided from BOB proctor personally every week and i got some recorded msg that anyone could have listen too on you tube ! i m very upset and disappointed , i gave them my hard earned money in this bad economy for BS !! I do believe in the law of attraction but i think those ppl from the secret r just money making scummer . So guys just be careful before spending ur money and don’t be stupid like me and let them put u under pressure. Im so embarrassed about it that i never told my husband or any of my friends about it, i thought i was smarter than that but when u r desperate for a change u can be very weak
Comment by M — December 27, 2009 @ 5:33 pm
The secrete movie is not the answer to our problems nor is it the only tool for success, But rather what these guys discuss is one of the tools for success in whatever field you are in. Yes hard work and sweat is what makes one successful, but what you have to understand is,you are probably using what they are teaching without knowing, you see during your sweat and hard work, what is it that keeps you going? your final Aim!!! This is what a lot of people don’t do when the going gets tough, they just give up cos it’s too hard. Do you know how many successful people have read think and grow rich? conversly some people have read it and not archived much, the difference it the hard work to put it into practice and to be honest they are simple little tasks that just require loads of simple little steps.
If you are smart enough to complete higher education you should be smart enough not to take everything on face value and you should be able to extract some order from all that choas of the secret.
Essentially what I’m saying is the knowlwege is what matters not the person saying it.
I have my own business fairly successfull at that and i tell you there is always hard work and there always will be,but sometimes it is hard to focus if you don’t have a visual perception of your final Goal. and yes I try not to dwell on negativity as all that does is bring more negativity so why not dwell on my success stories and moments.
Thanks
Geedogg
Comment by Gee Dogg — January 12, 2010 @ 11:25 am
this guy is a pure retard…everything hes saying is EXACTLY what the book and the movie talk about….if you’re actually educated and have a brain you can tell what they are talking about….in the book and the movie they basically tell you positive mind and hard work make the law of attraction work for you….if you listen to what they say they are not telling you make a wish and believe then it’ll come true….when they say make a wish…they mean set a goal….when they say believe…they mean focus yourself on that goal… which means WORK towards the goal and recieve it…and finally recieve…they mean through your hard work and positive attitude you will recieve your goal….i can see how people misunderstand what is being said…it’s simple they are using psycological ways to say the mind is the most powerful tool…they basically take a plain cake a put the frosting and decorations on it to make it sound like it’s something none of us have tried before…so remember…set your goal…work towards your goal…and eventually you will recieve your goal…
Comment by unknown — January 21, 2010 @ 8:21 pm
There really isn’t any secret here. If people would lay off the depression meds, and cheer the hell up, they would realize that all of it is based on common sense! Of-course it takes positive thought and a positive attitude to achieve your goals. That’s no secret! I hope people stop paying for this type of BS. I also hope that people understand that there are different levels of success that can be achieved by this. These videos make people believe that they’re going to be the next President or something. Or the next Bill Gates. Never mind. No wonder people are depressed… these are the standards that our modern society sets for everyone, and mainstream media pumps this crap into our brains on a tweet by tweet basis.
Comment by J. Lopez — January 26, 2010 @ 6:19 pm
I went to an Abraham Hicks thing at the insistence of a girlfriend. I have an unerring moral compass and my senses tell me she is a clever scam artist. The Abraham Hicks premise is a lie and anything built on lies will crumble and fall.
I noticed how she dominated the conversation when asked questions particularly when someone challenged the veracity of her philosophy. In one case, a lady asked why the secret had not led her to an acting career. Hicks was forced to do damage control (But you are already living your dream in the vortex and more BS like that). She has to keep naysayers at bay so that none of her followers can actually start thinking for themselves and realize she is a total fraud.
Most philosophies and religions focus on love and giving. The Hicks philosophy is one of self-indulgence, greed and the desire for power. Heaven help us all when people like her have so much influence over weak minds.
So think happy thoughts, be thankful for the blessings in your life and work hard for a better life but don’t make a false religion out of it.
Comment by Mike — January 31, 2010 @ 12:18 am
wow.. it’s a FILM, a MOVIE! Of course it’s not really gonna work! They made viral marketing and promotion and they exploited fat, short, poor and DUMB people!
Comment by John Flerianos — February 9, 2010 @ 4:06 pm
the one thing among many that I heard on the secret video that made no sense. This attract idea.Do military people think about going to war and dying,do little kids think of being left in a hot car and dying, do people in a plane crash attract that all at the same time.Do millions of people think of losing thier money in the stock market all at the same time .I think you get the point.
Comment by michael dean — February 10, 2010 @ 11:32 am
I was thinking I am superman and tried to fly but it did not work out. I wished I win in lottery did not work out. There´s no secret in this kind of fiction book and new age bullshit.
Same thing with all other religious books.
Comment by Sceptic — February 14, 2010 @ 6:42 am
Hi ,
I can only leave comments from my experience.I am not a kind a person who will just follow things blindly.I only accept things with enough logic, reasoning, and see if its practical.Once i came to know about law of attraction i couldnt believe it so i decided to put in practice purely by thinking if i wont gain anything than wont loose either.With my own experience and what ever happened with me , I Truly Believe in Law Of Attraction.I will not say movie ‘Secret’ is a perfect Movie but i appreciate their effort to give something nice to human kind to be more positive.If people say well LOA is scam or money making trick or whatever but if you think for a second we all make money in some form from every where.I am in sales and i sell to make money.By using Law of Attraction my life has changed a lot.Its a lot deeper study than just watching a Secret movie and most important is putting in to practice.Its more than ASK Believe Receive.
People who share their negative comments, i would like to ask you a question have you actually tried LOA ?if not than try it.It works.
Thanks
Nikki
Comment by Nikki — February 15, 2010 @ 9:53 am
Right on, Andrew. Who said we were put on this earth to “feel good” anyway? How presumptious of all of us, if we think we’re deserving of a happy, floating existence. Life IS beautiful-it can be. And it can be dirt-awful. And to blind yourself to the realities of being human is called, um, denial, and does nothing to elevate humanity. Now please read the hog wash served up by Esther and Jerry Hicks some time. NOTHING is bad as The Secret (b/c it’s so bleeping shallow and presumptious) but the Hicks’ have a scam going too. At least they have something a little deeper to say about humanity — but their vehicle is complete b.s. and some of their viewpoints are just beyond the freaking pail. A woman lost her son, and “Abraham” suggests that there is a way out of that pain – quicker and easier than the usual human process, which would be to be close to slitting one’s wrists 24/7 for about 20 years.
Comment by Vallerie Malkin — February 19, 2010 @ 10:08 am
The scam comprises the old nazi switch that reverses whats good to whats bad, such as having been run over in the back in a pedestrian right a way and then told, when I had been running from the driver trying to get to the curb, that I had caused that man to try to murder me! Aspen CO at its most heinious
thanks for being awake guys to truth
margaret
Comment by margaret — March 4, 2010 @ 9:40 pm
My life has been going from bad to worse, and for the last 10 years I have been searching for the meaning of it….why we are born where we are…why we meet people we meet…why some of us go through a mental or physical torture…take for example a woman passing by lawn mowing tractor and being decapitated….has anyone got any answers to it…
I have visted (and paid a fortune!!!!) all kinds of “fortune tellers”, “spiritual teachers” and so on…and so on…and few years ago a friend “spiritual teacher” told me about the Secret…so of course I bought it…and it is such a BS!!!
Somehow all the events in my life has lead me to believe that there must be a reincarnation, it will be to simple and lacking jastice as well, if we were to be born this once and then go…where to anyway..????
And that is why the whole SECRET thing is full of BS. Lets us say that in the past life one of us was born a murderer, take some SS officers from Nazi, they have murdered and tortured human being, lets take thos who were torturing during an inquisition and so on.. and so on… and now suddently we came back and things are not going well for us – but those “spiritual” people are telling us that: asking, believing, visualising and we shall receive….really????
Somehow deep down in me, something was telling me that we have to clear our past from the beggining of times! And the only good thing for me that Joe Vitale did, is that becaouse of his book, I have heard about Huna! And of course the question is, why until 1987 (I think?) Huna was illeagal????
The recent Tsunami on the Pacific – Hawaii expected waves at least 6 meters high, and all what hey got it, was half the expected hight…
How many of you do practice Huna…what experience do you have?
I would love to hear and exchange some experience and see what more I can learn from someone who is wiser than me!
Wishin a brilliant weekend to all of you
Grace
Comment by Grace — March 6, 2010 @ 9:03 am
20 years ago I won separately 21 cds, a holiday, 3 $50 dollar clothes vouches, a video player, and a raffle at a shopping centre winning 30 cds all within a year. Did not know the secret. I genuinely believed I would win and I did. No hard work involved at all…now if I can just whole heartedly believe I can win the lottery…. presently I receive 5 scam emails a day telling me I’ve won millions so I think I’m geting close!
Comment by matt — March 20, 2010 @ 7:16 am
I bought the online version of The Secret and got right to work. 4 months later, I’ve moved and switched jobs, even bought a new home.
I now make 50% more than I used to, have a hot young fiancee, bought my first BMW, and love life. I’ve grown 6 inches (3 in height, 3 in length), my vision has improved, and I no longer need braces!
You can see my story at:
http://www.GetALifeTheSecretIsCrapCantYouTellThatImJoking.com
Comment by OMG The Secret is Incredible — March 21, 2010 @ 2:49 am
I have just stumbled across this “secret” thing today while doing some research. See, my wishes, they come true, more now than ever. Thats what led me here. It used to be simple things like wishing for a ride while walking on a hot day, and a complete stranger stopping to pick me up (no thumb). Now, even my most complicated fantasies are coming to pass. Not everything, but I can no longer hold to the “coincidence” explanation. Maybe this “secret” thing has something to do with it? Either way, I am getting exactly what I want without a lick of hard work. Lucky? Maybe…
Comment by Lee — March 22, 2010 @ 12:52 am
For all the people who have never educated themselves on the LOA, and I mean EDUCATE yourself. There is much more to the LOA than The Secret but most if not all of the negative people who have posted are too lazy to educate themselves. Here is a suggestion to all the nay Sayers. Keep working hard to get ahead but while you do, for the next 12 months wake up every day and say ” I hate my life, I will never be successful, I will always be broke, I will lose my job and all of my belongings, I will be bankrupt soon for sure and I will become chronically ill for sure”. Say this everyday, 10 times a day and let us all know how that works out for you. It’s not like what you think has anything to do with how successful you are RIGHT?
Comment by Tony — March 31, 2010 @ 8:23 pm
This secret? Most of you have guessed it is no Secret, (that fact I am thankful for since now i know there is still somewhat intelligent life in the universe). This “law of Attraction,” seems to me like a combination of goal setting, attitude adjustment and perseverance. They say if you want money for a loan, or a new car or job, you think it, believe you’ll get it and you will. But the fact is, Planning, writing down goals, processing them and working towads them, then working hard towards them over a long period of time is exactly what business men, counsellors, and leadership guru’s (christian, religious or otherwise) have been saying for years! This law of attraction is just a fanciful new wrapping to the basic, standard information we have had for years. The new wrapping makes it more inviting and so much easier to execute, it gives new hope and inspiraton to the lost and provides a large amount of padding for some arrogant, peussassive and greedy people’s wallets.
That is on a purely aethiestic/agnostic materlialisc world in which the “laws of nature” dictate my life. But they Dont. The fact is, that there is a god (If you dont agree I urge you to think logically about where this fine universe of ours really came from… seriously… dust? something from nothing?), and this god, out of his good charity and love for his creation, gives abundantly to those that think hard enough about it. A God that rewards thoughts, what about the poor children that wish for a good life but by chance live in abusive homes or poverty. Why would he reward selfish egotistical men who have propsered due to this law of attracton principle because all they think about is themselves.
My main concern, is if this positive thinking is the result of some “law” or “influence” where does it come from, where do they have the right/authority to grant, who loses out because of it? How can they be sure they arent selling their souls to a power that, althought can provide now, may abandon them later to an unfortunate reality… Demon possession and opression is real. Satan or whoever u wish to call him has a degree of power, and his goal is us… One of the advocators for this secret is Esther Hicks, who believes that beings calling thmselves “Abraham” speak divine and infinite wisdom and knowledge to her, All of which, although very encouraging, has conveniently come out of nowhere for the first time in history? Infinte beings, right now, considering 10,000 – 4.6 Billion years or earth’s exsistence they show now?
If you want to believe in the law of attraction, I bet you the Devil is sitting at home thinking “Gullible souls, Gullible Souls come to me. Gullible, money grubbing souls for my use, come to me, bow to me, worship me…” I wish thee luck Worshipping the one persona who most wants you suffering…
Comment by Matthew — April 13, 2010 @ 10:05 am
This type of thing only works for certain personality types. Obviously people who sit back and think that they’re going to win the lottery, are unlikely to win the lottery.
But think of it like this.
If you believe beyond reasonable doubt that you will NEVER EVER have a chance of winning the lottery, you won’t buy a ticket, because that would be a waste since you won’t win-so you never will win, obviously.
If you believe that you will win, you will buy a ticket, because you need a ticket to win. Therefore, there is an oppertunity for you to win. This does not mean that you will, but you are obviously more likely to than if you didn’t believe you would, in which case you would never have bought the ticket.
The same principle can be applied to everything else. If you are a great singer but you believe you will never become famous from it, you won’t try (because you are sure you will not succeed down that path so why bother?), so you won’t become famous unless it were by some miracle. If you believe you will be famous, you will try to become famous, and are therefore more likely to become famous. That is the secret.
Comment by Millie — April 16, 2010 @ 3:46 am
I just don’t understand how this is a scam. Your trying to have a positive attitude about life and at the same time you are able to receive things for just keeping a good attitude.
PERSONALLY- I would much rather live a life in poverty and happiness and a good attitude than, becoming a person who hates life.
Its not like you can just Sit back and use the secret, you still have to work, its just having a good attitude, whats wrong with that?
Comment by Berto — April 17, 2010 @ 10:49 am
Forget about Secret. That book is not even inspirational. Emotions are actually felt by the body not mind. Whenever you are experiencing strong emotions, observe your bodily sensations. You can manipulate these sensations using your mind. How many times you had the gut feeling of success or failure in spite of uncertainty. And how many times your gut feeling won over your thinking mind.
Law of attraction is all about manipulating this gut feeling to achieve success. The key here is “uncertainty”.
Comment by Venkat — April 21, 2010 @ 11:24 pm
“If your crackpot alarm hasn’t gone off yet, I have a tin foil hat for you to wear.”
Andrew, simply said. Bravo to you. That’s classic! I’m still laughing.
Comment by D. Willis — April 22, 2010 @ 9:40 pm
Funny how all are so convinced in their opinion. I just don’t know. Does this theory really works. Is it just bull. I just know that there is a LOT out there that I have no idea about. And slowly, I’m getting closer and closer to know who I am and what I want. And this, is enough for me… forget about what they think, they want, they see as being the truth…
I am enough to discover… I’ll start there.
Self help world can help… just try to be wise investing in it.
Comment by Annie — May 6, 2010 @ 7:33 pm
Since i read the Secret I have turned my business around, improved my health, drive a brand new mercedes, work from home so i can look after my kids, appreciate the world and nature, found inner peace. You sound very angry, opinionated and bitter. I can see why you have your views but you know what they say “When the pupil is ready, the teacher appears” – what have you got to lose by not fighting it?
Comment by sharon — May 13, 2010 @ 8:19 am
I believe you are a smart guy. I am much older than you and I feel sorry for those who are sucked in by those self-appointed gurus.
by the way, do you know where i can get a doctorate in METAPHYSICS? I would like to get one. Do you think I can become a Metaphysics surgeon?
I really believe those who attack you are paid (the SECRET-LY).
By the way, i have a doctorate degree but not in Metaphysics.
All the best.
Andy
Comment by Andy — May 24, 2010 @ 9:10 pm
and all you guys are blinded by greed, money and the desire to want more! I am happy earning just enough to survive…. thats all anyone should get, this is already a planet destroyed by such nonsense thinking! Why dont we all put our heads together and save a species and feed the hungry instead of wanting a $1,000,000 house and new Range rover! Grow up and stop living in the lie which is “Money is success”!
The only thing i dream about is waking up to a world where there is no such thing as money! You only need it if you dont know how to survive! Sooner or later we will go back to the stone age, be it disater or ourselves! On that day we will really know one self, and what you really want in life!
P.S When last did you look up into the night sky and say to yourself “what small pale blue dot im on”, the need to want to know more is probably the greatest gift we have developed!
Use it
Comment by Leroy — May 30, 2010 @ 11:06 am
The secert is a complte scam theres no dobt about it.But the problem is people are so fed up with the world they will chose to belive in idotic shit to try and forget.In my opion they sholud go to a bar and just get hammerd.Its better than this shit.
By the way I was curios when you talked about the metaphysican so I googled it unlike you before you wrote this.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metaphysics
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/metaphysician
Comment by Johnny — June 4, 2010 @ 12:54 pm
A wise man once said: “When people stop believing in God, they will believe in just anything”. Wake up people!
Comment by Sebastian — June 4, 2010 @ 5:05 pm
“Or for webmasters, bloodshot eyes, an extra 20 pounds, and carpel tunnel.” OH MY GOD, ITS SO HARD TO SET UP A WORDPRESS SITE DUR DE DURR. Fuck, Stop complaining you didn’t have to write the site yourself.
Comment by Michael — June 8, 2010 @ 10:08 am
lol, good luck trying to set up a multi-million dollar internet company with WordPress.
Comment by Andrew — June 9, 2010 @ 4:25 pm
KJV James CH2 V 20 But wilt thou know, O vain man, that faith without works is dead?
Comment by Dave — June 12, 2010 @ 5:49 pm
If you think that way.. then it’s gonna be that way for you. <—THE SECRET!
Comment by BenDover — June 23, 2010 @ 3:47 am
You sir, are a victim of your own stinkin’ thinkin’. Your reward is to have to live with yourself. Your tunnel vision is astounding and it’s obvious you enjoy sitting on your shoulders. On top of that, your moronic argument has absolutely no factual basis or logic in it. When I read opinions like yours I have to laugh. You are a product of your small mind. The best to you sir. You will need it!
Comment by Dean A. Banks, D.D. — July 1, 2010 @ 9:45 pm
Dude, I have used the law of attraction to attract miracles into my life and it really works. Hard work for a paycheck is the true fallacy. Your ignorance about the universal law is truly sad. I hope you asked for your money back from that college you went to, as it is clear you didn’t really learn anything about how the universe really works.
Comment by Ken — July 8, 2010 @ 12:58 am
yea I agree with you the secret is a load of BS basically its saying there are no random events. They actually think if a drunk driver hits your car than you caused it because of negative thoughts. Heres the real common sense explanation the guy was drunk and you were unlucky enough to be on the road at the same time as him. It has nothing to do with you thoughts or attitude at the time.
Comment by Aaron — July 15, 2010 @ 12:08 pm
METAPHYSIAN LOL they shoulda had an interview with psudoscientst too
I knew it was bs after I saw that title wtf
there is nothing scientific about metaphysics
Comment by Aaron — July 15, 2010 @ 12:13 pm
Your comments intrigue me! There are a LOT of reputable voices heard in the movie, The Secret, people who have made mega fortunes already. So I’m curious about your level of success? All I know for sure is this. Never take marital advice from someone who is divorced. Or put into different words, be careful who you take advice from and be sure that they have a level of success that you appreciate in the area in which they are advising!
Comment by TW — July 19, 2010 @ 10:02 pm
If you judge someone’s reputation by how much money they have, Bernie Madoff looked real good right up until he was caught.
Comment by Andrew — July 25, 2010 @ 11:43 am
If you BELIEVE that “The Secret” and/or The Law of Attraction is just a scam then that will become your reality, so of course you then are just proving that it is not a scam by doing so. As for me, I have been following the teachings set forth in the film “The Secret” for years (well before the film) and the things that have manifested (both good and bad) have been a direct result of the energy my thoughts were putting out into the universe. I have had more good come my way through positive thoughts then I ever could imagine and therefore I KNOW that the law of attraction does in fact work. But if you want to believe it is a scam then it certainly will appear as if it is not working for you because that is what you are expecting and that is what the universe delivers. Either way, we are both right because we both firmly believe in what we are declaring and the universe is operating on the thoughts we are thinking.
Comment by Patrick — August 1, 2010 @ 6:40 pm
Andrew,
If I look back at my highschool yearbook, I see the quote under my photo – “The only life worth living is a life of effort. (Woodrow Wilson)” I was brought up with a strong work ethic and it is still a value that I hold as being fundamental to realizing my dreams.
However, I think you missed one thing with The Secret and the Law of Attraction – no one said it wouldn’t come without effort.
As you know, achievement often requires monumental effort. While I personally don’t buy into the metaphysical side of the LOA theory, I firmly believe that the practices (visualization, faith, etc) are essential for grand achievement.
Checkout Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich or Maxwell Maltz’ Psycho-cybernetics. Both of these were written decades before the secret, but let on to the same teachings. Give it a *real* chance and I think you’ll be amazed by the results.
Comment by Josh — August 9, 2010 @ 11:13 pm
MSc stands for a Masters Degree in Science, which he must have got before he completed his ph.D, which is what made him a doctor, and added the .D to the MSc.
However I agree, it does seem like another scam to trick people out of money, with the promise of helping them make more.
Comment by Adam Turner — August 11, 2010 @ 9:57 am
Stop telling people about “the secret”! Life, apparently, is a zero-sum game, and I don’t want anyone else to figure this thing out. Let the drunk driver hit someone else. There is only so much “secret” juice to go around!
Comment by Brett — August 11, 2010 @ 3:04 pm
Logical, determined, common sense, hard/smart work, even delegating duties, responsibilities are all things that will point you in the right direction and give you (me) the best chance of success.
These back and forth arguments are said. I see people fighting to not want to be sucked in. They call this hocus pocus (I agree
), but I think sometimes they really want to believe, just like religion, god, devils, angels, prayer, holy ghost (ghost, that should be a clue of a sham right there).
SO DON’T BE A SUCKER AND BUY THIS CHIT, THEIR CHIT, HYOU ONLY WILL BE DEPRESSED IN THE END. Try what I put forth and see if work…. pssst, I’m not going to charge you either.
I’ve successfully ran my own business, sold it for a profit, graduated at the top of my class, married for over a decade (never cheated) and all thanks to common sense, logical thinking, and NOT BEING SUCKED IN… to scams, drinking, drugs, etc.
Now, be your best counsel and use common sense hence forth!
Comment by FairyTaleEyesWideOpen — August 27, 2010 @ 2:33 am
I am a very spiritual and philosophical person with a long enough life experience to be able to distinguish between a fact and a lie, and between wisdom and stupidity.
“The Secret” and its alike theories are nothing but a hype and scam.
I am currently studying law, and I learn to think logically and reasonably.
The theory of “the Secret” is non-sensical, unreasonable, absurd, illogical, dilusional and down right silly on par with blind faith.
I have less than a week left to my Law exam. Do you really think that I will pass it by sitting here and having attractive thoughts of passing it? Not in your wildest dreams.
You can spend as much time as you want thinking and picturing yourself passing it, but the truth is, you never will.
The problem with Secret theory is that it leads people to believe that success is almost all about “positive thoughts, positive thinking and positive will”. My life experience, let alone common sense, tells me that Nothing can be further from the truth.
I will never pass my Law Exam by simply wishing it. It takes more than a mere wish.
Of course it starts with “believing that I can pass it”. I need a strong belief, faith and conviction to even do anything about it.
But more important than that is “actually working for it and making endless efforts”.
The reality is very simple.
If you want to achieve something, you have to earn it.
You have to not only wish for it, but have to put in all the hard work and efforts to make it happen.
In conclusion, achieving success is possible only by undying faith and endless effort.
The Secret undermines the importance of “making efforts” by saying if you just think about it, it will happen naturally and automatically by the law of attraction.
You don’t have to study Law like me to know that is pure stupidity.
Comment by Sean Kim — August 29, 2010 @ 10:08 am
I’m really sorry you feel that way. I didn’t read the whole thing. Just droping by a word to say that I got everything I wanted, but feel sorry for who don’t believe cause it’s already happening.
Comment by Mika — August 31, 2010 @ 12:09 pm